On one hand, he is still married, and on the other hand, he doesn't have any feelings for his wife.
They are getting a divorce because they no longer love each other but they are still on good terms, no animosity.
He was very faithful to her for the 10-ish years they were married. They had two daughters together, both of which like me.
We have been friends for a year and we have a lot in common. We met while at tech college. He's a few years older than me, but our families are fine with this. He's younger than my parents and I'm older than his kids - we figure thats good enough for us.
Should I wait till the divorce is all final or should I continue seeing him? We haven't gotten heavy nor do we plan to. We both want to set a good example for his teenage girls. Anyy advice?
2007-01-21 12:45:10 · 8 answers · asked by ♫Hope♫ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also think there isn't a problem with this. If you aren't sneaking around like he still is married and not getting a divorce everything should be fine. It sounds like to me that you are already integrated into his life.
As for the age difference, that shouldn't matter either. I'm dating a guy that is 8 years older than I am and it really makes no difference.
2007-01-21 12:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by questioning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel pretty much the same as everyone else. If I was in that situation I would be very cautious. I would take some extra steps to ensure that he/she was in fact getting a divorce like: talking to his/her soon to be ex, take everything very slow (if they want to rush, their probably not serious about the divorce, just having someone on the side), and talk to his/her friends - listen to what they have to say about what's happening. Also, always have it in the back of your head that until that divorce is final, there is a possibility of them having a change of heart. Good Luck!!
2007-01-21 18:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by Harley's Angle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from someone who has been separated for purely about seven months, I certainly imagine that is going to be a smash interior the criminal settlement of marriage. The Bible states that, and because Texas does no longer have criminal separation, i imagine in all eyes, separation nonetheless ability married. it ought to steer on to reason through adultery and till the legalities are squared away, that is optimal to easily ward off any themes with a fragile situation. there is way too many thoughts in touch.
2016-10-15 22:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him, do you really think he wants to settle down after being married for 10 years the man needs to sole his oats!
2007-01-21 12:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with it. I would be very careful though. Are you sure it is over? Does his wife know about you? Is he ready to jump right into another relationship before this one is over. Good luck to you. Just be cautious.
2007-01-21 12:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by k b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend do this and she married the guy. I don't see anything wrong with it as long as the marriage is really over and your sure of that fact.
2007-01-21 12:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by sexxymom35 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't see anything wrong with it i am dating a man that is married and he is getting a divorce
2007-01-21 12:50:31 · answer #7 · answered by angel s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd wait. He may go back to her. Like you say he's still married.
2007-01-21 12:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by cswint2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋