2007-01-21 12:34:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Hi girlygirl!!!
I'm so "SAD" that you "THINK" you are happy, but in reality sweety, you are mascarading your pain, frustration or problem!!!If you cotinue with this, you are headding for a very sad and painful ending!!!
What I'm going to tell you will be kind of harsh, but is the truth!!! So please, don't feel offended by my advise. In aby case I'm trying to help.
I see nothing wrong drinking, ocasionally or socially. But every
day, is a concern!!!
First of all when some one needs to drink, use drugs or have sex, every single day, they are considered to be addicts.
If you have the "NEED" of any of this three, you most consult a doctor, before this condition gets worst, it is alredy bad!!!
You need to find out the real reason why you depend on alcohol, to feel good. Once you determine the reason, with the help of a good treatment, you will be able to recuperate from this.
I know you do not consider yourself as bieng "SICK", but
sweetie, you are!!! I'm pretty sure you are a wonderful person,
and I can imagine you being even a better one without you hidding behind, this additction.
I trully would like you to get the help you need, so at least you enjoy life sober, and healthy!!! If you continue, your physical and mental health will be seriously compromised!!!
There is so much to enjoy in life more than a bottle, a smoke, a needle, or a body!!! This are things that only last moments, leaving you empty, the next day, or when you wake up!!
You are NOT LOVING OR RESPECTING your presona.
You might feel happy, as you stated before, but for how long???
I invite you to take a tour at your local hospital, ask where are that addicts patients floor. You will find them in constant pain,
most of them fairly young, but looking way much older, sad and alone!!!! Probably suferring from, cancer, cirrosys of the liver,
and mentaly incompetent.
My question for you is.......Are you ready for this???
Haven't you explored the so many talents GOD had given you???
NO one NEEDS to be addited to things, and make themselves,
something GOD didn't intended for you to be!!!!
If you have lots of friends now, because you drink, this are the same friends you will NOT have if you need to be in the hospital. Wake up to reality, you are wasting your life, when you can actually be living really happy!!!
GOOD LUCK, GOD BLESS YOU &
LIVE A TRUE HAPPY LIFE
ALLIV Z
2007-01-21 13:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful!!! Alcohol has an awful way of slowly catching up with us. A dependency has already developed if you think drinking is making you a more pleasant and happier person. You have already come to rely on it for a feeling that is temporarily brought on from a mind altering chemical. Please know that your body can become physically addicted also. Your tolerance will build up and it will soon take more and more to achieve that "feeling". Then you are really in trouble. You'll find that you can't go or do anything without a drink first. It will rule your life.
2007-01-21 20:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by JACKIE J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alcohol probably relaxes you and relieves you of the stress of the day..when you say it makes you a happier person and more pleasant is that your assessment or the opinion of those around you..does it also mean that when you do not drink you are unpleasant to be around ? ...and what do you drink , couple of glasses of wine or 5 highballs all of this makes a difference. Unless on know some of the above it is not easy to come up with a good answer...anyway a little bit of wine I think is OK, and unless you liver protest don't worry too much about it
2007-01-21 20:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem,but turned out i lost control and started drinking in the am just to make through the day,becareful, I would n't want you to end up with a life like mine
2007-01-21 20:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by want to smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an alcoholic and you need to get help immediately! Alcohol is just a crutch. Find out why you feel the need to drink!
2007-01-21 20:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by Inquisitive125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much you drink. If you drink alot then you are probably annoying to those around you. If you have one or two then yeah, you are probably just more relaxed and easy going.
2007-01-21 20:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by fiestyredhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a sign of alcoholism. If you were smart you would immediately stop drinking permanently
2007-01-21 20:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by jonnyraven 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your drinking is probibly relieving stress. Careful about becoming an alcoholic.
2007-01-21 20:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by JAMI E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you get withdrawal symptoms when you don't drink?
Not a positive sign IMO.
Try to cut down, possibly with medical supervision.
2007-01-21 20:40:49 · answer #9 · answered by internits 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you
make sure its healthy long term
watch out if you start drinking more and more or switching to hard alcohol
2007-01-21 20:48:22 · answer #10 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋