k... my girl friend has a friend that gets very jelous when i hang out with my girlfriend. for some reason she does not like me. . . but she is like retarded for instance my gf came over to hang out and watch a movie and her friend was with her other friend and she called my gf like 20 times and then got all pissed off and crap.
if she could she would llikely kill me lol . . . my gf told me how when they hang out her friend talks crap about me and stuff . . . today my gf and her friend were hanging out studying for finals that are coming up. my gf called me today asking if i wanted to go to the park for liike 10 minutes and i said i couldnt because i had to much homework to finish and cause i didnt want to hang out with her friend cause i dont like her. and she was like well why cant u come and blah blah . . . .but she doesnt like me so why the F*** would she want me to go to the park? . . . and y is she so fing jelous? any help thanks
2007-01-21 12:25:49 · 14 answers · asked by Mickster 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's one of those things you just have to deal with.
You can't make her drop the other friend so just learn to live with it.
Good Luck
2007-01-21 12:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is jelous of you and your girlfriends relationship. The friend thinks that you are threatening thier friendship and does not want to feel left out. The friend also wants your girl friend to herself, because if your girlfriend is always asking her to come with you guys then she will feel like the third wheel. She more than likely misses the time that your girlfriend and her use to spend together before you came along. Tell your girl to talk to her and explain that they will still be friends no matter what. And that she will try her best to balance the time.
2007-01-21 20:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend's friend could use a little therapy.
She wants 100% of your girlfriend's attention and anyone who stands in her way of getting that, will be hated by her.
She needs to make other friends in addition to your girlfriend. She may also be jealous that your girlfriend has a boyfriend(you).
She doesn't have a boyfriend and on top of that, only one girlfriend. Yours.
She is very insecure and is probably afraid that she might lose her friend to you entirely.
Maybe your girlfriend could introduce her to some other people so she would have someone in her life besides just your girlfriend.
That's really sad.
2007-01-21 20:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhmmm...yeaah okk . what i would do is that i would jus talk to ur gf s friend even if u dont want to...u have to doit man.either u likeit or not.cause eventually u or her will end up braking up.well also,u need to calm down to.but i think also shes mad at u cause either u did something to her and you didint knowtest or maybe shes jelaus cause she likes u.but u like ur gf.talk.its the best thiing to do.ok?well ttyl.bye
2007-01-21 20:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by neina khan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that her friend either likes you, or is jealous that her friend has a b/f. She might want to break you guys up. You should have a serious conversation with your girlfriend b/c this could become a big problem later.
2007-01-21 20:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by H-Dizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hopeless. Let me tell you right now - it's hard enough winning one woman over, let alone having to fight to deal with her friend to. I would break it off.
(Your only hope is if you can talk to her friend and find out why she is so jealous or why she has a problem with you and explain you are not trying to impose on their friendship. She must be insecure to be like this and perhaps if you reassure her, she will stop.)
2007-01-21 20:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by Romey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation with my ex. We dated for three years and her friends hated me and i hated them because they thought that i "stole" her away form them. The best way that i found to deal with it is to ignore all the **** that they say. If I'm guessing correctly i bet the friend of your gf is single and is just jealous. So i guess my best advice is that you should just ignore her or confront her about it. hope it goes well.
2007-01-21 20:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by bigshack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her about her friend and ask about her behavior and what you do know is her behavior could be temperary and things will be back to normal or if it doesn't change talk about it as soon as possible!!!!!!!!
2007-01-21 20:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by Rainy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that her friend either likes u or wants her friend all to her self either way girl is all messed up.
2007-01-21 20:30:10 · answer #9 · answered by Bricee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she needs to make a choice, when you are with her she needs to stay away from her friends, and not to invite you when she is with them.
2007-01-21 20:30:53 · answer #10 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋