A question for the guys (plz answer, i've been wondering this for the longest time)?

Question

i know that some and most girls have a hard time getting over a guy. but guys, is it hard for you or can you just kind of brush it off?
and how long does it usually take a guy to get over the girl?

Answer 1

I've had loads of girlfriends, but still pine for my very first from 16 years ago!!!! Does that answer your question? :-)

Answer 2

i doesn't have self belief it. it isn't person-friendly to hit upon a 19 12 months previous virgin. and till you've the most threat free personality interior the international any 0.5-sensible guy is gonna assume you've executed it. The cherry doesnt continually pop on the first time, yet he's gonna see that you recognize what you're doing. do not pretend like you do not both reason adult adult males like freaks in mattress. each body needs a virgin yet at 19 it is purely no longer conceivable. you may trick an rather guillable guy yet it really is it. you're more suitable off searching like you've experience than being a liar.

Answer 3

It depends. If it's over, it's over. But then there's the one about the girl I really liked, and I thought she liked me. But the date after I might have gone too far, she greeted me with onion breath. Phew! My eyes were watering by the end of the date! I was convinced that this was her way of blowing me off, so I let her go, reluctantly, without another word. BIG mistake.

Ten years later, I chanced to see her again, when she was on her way to a Bible study. Almost instantly, the familiar odor of onions filled the space between us. My heart fell through the floor. She hadn't rejected me, she simply LIKED ONIONS! By now I was married with three kids. Now it truly WAS over, and it was my own stupid fault! I kicked myself home that night, and still do every time I think about it.

NEVER ASSUME ANYTHING regarding relationships. Get ALL questions out in the open. DON'T MAKE MY MISTAKE!!!

Answer 4

This can really vary from guy to guy, but generally, it is less tramatic for a guy. Personally, I like some time off from "being there" for someone in a close dating relationship, and be able to spend some more self-centered time with the guys for awhile, as I heal. But in a month or more's time, I am ready to start looking around again.

But the differences between the rebound times for men & women vary for much deeper reasons that I could fully explain here. But to just touch on it, keep in mind that the ladies are more into words like: "commitment, relationship, intimacy, security, sharing, involvement, fidelity, faithfulness & honesty"; the most important day of her life being her wedding day. While guys are more into things such as: "playing the field, conquests, variety, promiscuity, risk taking, harams, snowballing, lying your way into and out of situations, and the game of hit & run"; the most important day of his life being either when he finally looses his cherry, or starts his "career job."

What this stems from, is rooted in the law of supply & demand. Girls can only make available 600 or so ovum in her lifetime, while boys can produce millions of sperm per ejaculation, several times a day. This makes sperm cheap, and eggs very expensive. [Keep in mind, cheap, readily available birth control is a relatively new factor, so does not play much into this concept, which deals with erons of time.]

The female needs to be concerned about if the guy she shares her genes with, is going to increase her chances of success by still being around nine months down the road, when she is most need of a partner to help her and their child survive, in order to keep the gene flow rolling into the next generation. This is why she likes those above words more than her male counterpart.

Whereas, the male has TONS of sperm he can take risks with, waste, toss around to the nearest willing vessle, and STILL have high hopes that somewhere, somehow, through some stroke of luck, a few of his genes will make their way to the next generation to repeat the cycle.

Therefore, it deeply ingrained in him for it to not be as big of a deal to cut his losses in a relationship, and move on...so he heals a bit faster; while the opposite is true for women.

I know this is deep, and a bit complicated, and most of all, there are a multitude of other factors that motivated complex beings such as humans, but this is a synopsis of how Sociobiolgy theory explains the differences in men & women's agendas. I have found it especially hard for females to grasp these concepts, but I thought I would share them with you anyway, as spaced-out as they may seem to you.

Answer 5

u r totally wrong , forgive me , it is the opposite , when a man love a woman he loves her from all his heart and can do anything for her , but when it finish he will suffer so much pain and can't forget her . at the other hand when a girl love , she can forget her love with the first one she meet and she sens the wormth of his heart , by the way ths words come out of mouth of a girl i know

Answer 6

Like the man said, sometimes a lifetime.

Answer 7

it can be. it depends on how much your heart yearned for them. i still pine for a gurl in jr high, be she hates me. the best thing to do is to ask God to take the pain away so you can do His will, and move on. love hurts. (everly broths 1957 and Nazarath 1976)

Answer 8

It took a long time, to get over my ex's. Other women paid the price because I wouldn't let myself get close to anyone.

Answer 9

it depends, if the girl does something to piss me off ill cut her and not think twice.
if she got rid of me and i cant figure out why, that will bother me for a while

Answer 10

Guys are just less emotionally demonstrative - yup, we can have a very hard time... we just don't show it (sign of weakness???). Even years.