hey girls, what causes a woman to lose interest when dating a guy? i was dating this girl for a month and things were great, we had fun, great sex, laughed a lot, talked for hours and never argued. she even went through some rough times and i was always caring and attentive. then one day she told me she just wanted to be friends but she didn't know why..and i was like wtf??? maybe i let my guard down too soon? i heard a woman's attraction doesn't care if you're sweet..that's why women date *******..is this true? i have no problem starting relationships..but how do i keep them?? thanks for your help.
2007-01-21 12:13:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry mate, she met me and that's why you seem so inferior. She also told me about your, how shall we put it.... your 'little' problem. Have you ever thought of enhancement surgery?
2007-01-21 12:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by Oliver T 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't be so hard on yourself! It sounds like you are a really great guy! Unfortunately it sounds like this just wasnt the right time for this lady! You said that she had some rough patches.....maybe these rough patches have made her think that this isnt the right time for her to be dating...she may just want to spend sometime by herself to sort through things before she starts dragging a fella into her life!
But then again, maybe she is just a ***** and isnt interested in the 'good guy'.....but i can tell you now, there are PLENTY of women out there who are looking for a guy like you!! So keep your head up...and just take this one as experience!
2007-01-21 12:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the way things appear from the point of view of one person are not the same way that they appear to another person. She may have reasons that she does not want to tell you.
See if you can ask someone she knows well if they have any idea.
Don't use it to try and get back together, cause that probably won't work at this point - just for your own personal knowlege and growth.
2007-01-21 12:19:57 · answer #3 · answered by cyclgrrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I keep hearing over and over that women like Aholes. Thats not what attracts them, it's the fact that the guy is not a wimp or a pushover. In general, girls want masculine men.They like the mystery and the challenge. In other words, don't tell them everything about yourself right away. Let them discover it on their own, one piece at a time.
2007-01-21 12:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I am only attracted to sweet guys- I run from ah. But maybe she is not ready for a relationship- be her friend and if feelings develop and blossom again then great- if not- move on.
2007-01-21 12:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree to act disinterested...whenever a guy falls for me hard i always lose interest i dont know why...but the clinginess that first attracted me ets old and i dump them. the truth is we all end up with the man that just couldnt quite get us....o well. dont be mean to her just act like your world doesnt revolve around her. then she might see you in a different light.. hope i helped...(o and iam happily with that man now for 4 yrs =])
2007-01-21 12:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by amie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like the chase almost as much as a man. Remember that. Don't be as attentive. You'll get taken advantage of, or dropped. It's not really bad boys as much as wondering why they aren't at their beck and call.
2007-01-21 12:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by Shey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Argh--one among my acquaintances is like this too. in case you want a lady merely tell HER FROM the starting up!! ignore turning out to be "acquaintances" first. If one component pisses a lady off more advantageous than a lot else is that her acquaintances start up getting attracted to her!! So get off yer **** and merely ASK the subsequent woman out!! Please--keep your self from a existence of frustration!!
2016-12-02 21:00:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it works for guys to..if you act to intrested to quick people tend to feel uncomfortable. Next time take things a bit more slowly as far as the emotional bond.
2007-01-21 12:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by H-Dizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just let her what you do for fun and see if she likes to do the same thing as you if not ask her what she likes to do then you start a conversation and you might want to take her out on a date (just don't make her pay)(lol)
2007-01-21 12:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a girl is not ready to be real serious, a guy that is becomes a turn-off. i think you have just experienced wrong timing. when you meet a girl on the same page as you, what you are doing will be appreciated. do not become an asshole thinking that is what girls want - a serious girl, one worth your efforts, will not want that.
2007-01-21 12:21:25 · answer #11 · answered by QueenBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋