He is attempting to gain control over his "carnal urges". If you are familiar with buddist, or yogi teachings you know what I am talking about. How do I respect this and still be able to bond with him physically? Serious answers only please.
2007-01-21 12:11:15 · 15 answers · asked by SexiTash 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I don't want to cheat on him just have pleasure that I can simply get from him..I love him and I want to support him.
2007-01-21 12:19:54 · update #1
I am also getting into the yogi studies...but basically I am asking what are some ways to bond other than sex...
2007-01-21 12:21:25 · update #2
rostov, Squishy, and Chris J are on point,great answers!!
2007-01-21 12:50:54 · update #3
how often is sometimes? and for how long is the "Fast" so to speak.
you respect something by understanding it. so try to learn some of his beliefs. and when you know that he is not supposed to engage in such activity, control yourself and do not make things harder on him.
there are more bonds than physical.
2007-01-21 12:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are two distinct paths; that of a monactic, and that of a householder. Most of Buddhism is a description from the perspective of a monk. The Vedic tradition is offersmore information about householders. He is trying to follow tenents suited to the path of a monk while being in the world. They should not be mixed, as this brings negativity. (1) If a man and woman want to be together, sexuality is a matter decided by both of their desires, not his or hers alone. He needs to consider what else he is might be confusing between these two paths.
2007-01-21 12:25:01 · answer #2 · answered by neil s 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
certain! Over a 7 week era...I truly existed on water and rice truffles. (I say truly, because each and every once in a lengthy time period, i might want to eat a slice of cucumber or another sparkling food). I felt like "great-woman", maximum of that aspect. i become energized previous some thing i have ever experienced earlier or on the grounds that. My motivation to start up, isn't a tale I want to describe immediately. (please forgive). :) I felt quite linked....It turned right into a spectacular journey. i encourage it, in the event you've the fortitude to do it. i do not imagine 3 days is lengthy sufficient, because the actual body's cleansing procedure, takes time. notwithstanding... everybody ought to maintain on with their own direction, and everyone is conscious their own body, yet i might want to recommend an finished week minimum to attain authentic effects.
2016-12-02 21:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think any kind of physical bonding will make it harder for him to keep 'physical' thoughts away. I do agree with hugging though.
Try to take your relationship to a more emotional level. Try doing things that you both enjoy, together. Get to know him better - you never know your partner enough. Trying cooking dishes he loves. Do things for each other :-)
2007-01-21 17:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by Reiki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hugging and massage.
Otherwise, learn to bond with him on other levels; e.g., medidate with him and explore some of the things he is exploring.
You can bond by doing almost anything together.
2007-01-21 12:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by rostov 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get Married Silly!
2007-01-21 12:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Teach him about Tantric Buddhism.
2007-01-21 12:35:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex before marriage is called fornication. Fornicators will have their part in the lake of fire. You should respect him if he wants to do the right thing. Quit tempting him sex trash.
2007-01-21 12:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by blaze 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ull jus have to wait till hes ready to bond with him physicaly in that way...for now just masterbate or something like that, thats the only way to relase UR sexual urges without hurting him
2007-01-21 12:18:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't know how to bond with him without having sex with him? Really?
2007-01-21 12:21:40 · answer #10 · answered by Khalin Ironcrow 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋