I am 18 and have had a great b/f for 3 years and our relationship is great but the thought of girl on girl or seeing naked women in porn and stuff does make me w*t. S*x with my boyfriend is awesome too though. I also find myself checking out a lot of girls...i have always wanted to be with a girl s*xually but i would rather be with a man for the relationship......help i want to experiment to see waht i like but i cant ever find any girls...and would that be cheating if its a girl???? just please gimme some good advice!
2007-01-21 12:09:03 · 15 answers · asked by ..cHeRi.. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no. I wouldn't say that your bi. id' just say that you have discovered a deep fantasy, you have these thoughts because since its something that youve never had you are now curious so i think if you just try this out (and trust me if your bf is a real man then its ok with him) and either it may become a new fetish for you or you may just have had a fantasy that needed to be fulfilled.
OH! and on that whole cant find some one you can if you go to a gay club or just find a friend who you can share your story with and if she's comfortable then ask her if she would help you fulfill your fantasy!
~~good luck~~
2007-01-21 12:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Messiah Miss 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No one can really tell you if you're bi, you just kinda have to figure it out over time. It sounds like you are curious, but don't get upset if you aren't able to mess around with a girl right away. If that's really how you feel, you'll find someone eventually. Plus, you should probably talk to your boyfriend, because some guys consider that cheating and some don't.
2007-01-21 20:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by rhythm.nbass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest with your boyfriend and tell him you are having these feelings and want to experiment. You are very young, and tying yourself to him and always wondering would be wrong. He may be 100% behind it and want to be a part of it. He may say it is not for him. You need to do what is right for you though. And yes, if you are in an exclusive relationship it would be cheating. If the rolls were reversed, would you want him fooling around with a guy and not telling you?? Honesty is best. Good luck!
2007-01-21 20:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Smilingcheek 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best step too make is letting your boyfriend know how you feel about women. There is a chance that you could be bi-sexual, but then again you might just be infatuated by a female's body. If you "experience" with a woman and find yourself wanting it more then you can pretty much say that you're bi-sexual. And cheating is cheating... male, female, trannie, whatever...
2007-01-21 20:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by Y.a.S.L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't put a lable on your self just yet. You sound more bi-curious then bi-sexual. I found alot of girls are curious if your attracted to someone you can just ask you would be surprised on the positive feed back you might get. Yes it would be cheating but it also depends on how threatened your boyfriend is of you being with another girl, if your serious it's best to be honest and maybe try a 3some.
2007-01-21 20:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by lisa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Chances are you already know a girl that has the same feelings and wants to explore too.This is becoming more common with woman now days.I can see why too, its because so many girls look so beautiful you cant help but want to be with them.I think it would be considered cheating but if you told your guy I bet he would forgive you in about a tenth of a second.
2007-01-21 20:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are a poster child for the evils of pornography. I don't even believe in what you want to do. I think it is perverted and crazy. A sign that these are indeed the last days. Tolerance for you as a person is all I can offer; but for your mixed up and perverse sexual desires you don't even get my sympathy. Must be sad to be you.
2007-01-21 20:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you are but there is one good bit of hope! My X Fiance was bi too and she confronted me about it and i said okay? she then told me she had experamented with friend of ours and i flipped out cause i wasnt there to watch! just as long as there is no other guy there during your "experiment" im sure hell be fine and trust me he'd love hearing all about it unless he discourages the acts
2007-01-21 20:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by Metalup87 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
heres what it boils down to..if you are attracted to both sexes then yes you are bi and thats great and nothing to be scred of.. you just have a more open playing field as far as if its cheating..yes it is unless you guys have a different defination of cheating together
2007-01-21 20:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by crystal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is cheating no matter if it's a man or woman your having sex with.
2007-01-21 20:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋