my boyfriend of 7 years dumped me today and I feel like my heart is being ripped out of my chest. Im now a single mom of 3 kids and I don't know what to do. Any advice on curing a broken heart?
2007-01-21 12:04:51 · 8 answers · asked by brooke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do anything. Don't make any plans. Just let this storm of life take it's course. If you rush healing you may make decisions that you wouldn't normally make. It's okay to feel the hurt and pain from the lost of your 7 year relationship. Many times we feel we need to be strong and don't do this, don't do that. If you want to cry, crying is okay it grows the soul and mends the broke heart. Allow yourself to feel. Feeling are true and needs to be expressed. Remember you can lose someone you love but you don't lose love because it's within you. Remember you can be disappointed in someone you love but you shouldn't be disappointed in love because it lives in your heart. Remember to forgive the love that you lost because what was good was what you had together and still remains in memory. You will be okay in time and you will find yourself in a better place then you have ever been in your life. A life of love, love never ends it may close in one chapter but it will open in another. Take care.
2007-01-21 12:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by relationcounseling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. My whole body feels sick for you... nothing anyone says will make it better. The only thing that got me through was a lot of crying, reading "it's called a break up because it's broken" and focusing on work and other responsibilities. I know your world seems crushed and you probably feel like everything should slow down with you... but hold you head up high and think about your kids. They are lucky to have you and you will get through this, one day at a time.
2007-01-21 12:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by coniferc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry! Chicken soup makes everything feel better...It's silly, but it's a proven fact. I wish you the best of luck, you will get out of this hole soon! Keep your sunny side up!
2007-01-21 12:08:43 · answer #3 · answered by 1tuffcookie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you dont need him
find a rich guy to support you on top of your boy friends child support that would get him preatty good
2007-01-21 12:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry maybe you will get back together..just give him some space just now and see what happens......your children will give you plenty of love.
2007-01-21 12:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray ......make yourself be OK. think about your kids....it's not their fault, so dont be gloomy too long and make them suffer too.
2007-01-21 12:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat peanuts
2007-01-21 12:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
time is the only thing that will help you
2007-01-21 12:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋