Does she love me?

Question

I love me roommate. But I am not sure if she likes me or not. She gives opposite signals. When I do something new in the house, she says: "you are amazing or you are awful,...". She asks if I need anything when she wants to go shopping. She gave me a ride a few days ago. One night she suggested to wake me up when I had to study the night and did it in an nice way. She talks to me about details in her life. She suddenly played a romantic video when we were sitting in the living room.
But she also talks to me about her ex-boy friends, or boys she meets in school and that she likes one of them for example. She used to bring boys with whom they spent all the night in her room several times. She does not ask about my life. When her friends or family come to visit her, she does not talk to me when they are there. She tries not to physically get very close to me.

Now I am wondering if she likes me or not. Do you have any ideas?

Answer 1

She likes you as a ROOMMATE for sure!! As far as anything ELSE, no way. To HER, you are just another person. I strongly suggest you do NOT ever push yourself or your fantasy on her, or you might end up out in the street. She really has made it VERY clear she does NOT want to be anything more than roomies - leave it that way.

Answer 2

Maybe she is just trying to butter you up because she's going to be late or short on rent this month. And what is a romantic video is it a girly movie she wanted to see? Unless she throws you on the ground and you give HER a ride I'd say forget her and find someone else

Answer 3

I dont think she likes you as a lover. You are a good roommate who has feelings for the one that is around you so much. Remove yourself from that scene and see if you still like her. If you do then go for it, let her know your feelings. All she can say is no. There is nothing wrong in a rejection.

Answer 4

I thinks she's just being nice to you. But how does it matter, how she feels about you? Do you have feelings for her?
The only sure way to find out is to ask her or tell her how you feel about her. But either ways, if she is not interested, you risk being kicked out of the apartment.

Answer 5

i know it 'll sound bad but..
cant U see that she often uses U for timepass?

but watever the case is ,do tell her tat U love her tat might make her change her mind..cz it also seems tat she likes U a bit..

waiting 4U to make the first move..
she seems confused..

JUST TELL HER" i love u"
&watch her melt or lets say U'll be sure abt your relation..
whether as friends/roomate/lovers..


All the best !!

Answer 6

You need to be more active. Many girl does like this when there is no or less response from her loved person.

Answer 7

arre yaar she not love u like a life partner she like u as a clojest friend so she tell u all things like his bf and many also if u see like a gf so it is ur mistake pl see new gf for rommance

Answer 8

its obvious she knows you care about her, and thats a start. And whnever someone breaks up w/ her , ask how you can help and be there for her, give her a shoulder to cry on

Answer 9

I think you should just ask her and get it over with cus if you don't how would you ever move on

Answer 10

It sounds like she could like you, maybe she is waiting for you to make a move. This is what I think, you should talk to her and tell her you like her. It could make a difference, trust me.