Okay I have this guy who has given me music lesson and he's always asking me if I would like to sign up for more, but I told him I was going through financail difficualty and couldn't so he offered me a follow up free sessions, he said he has that diecretion who he wants to give one too, so he seen me, and told me to call hm for the free follow up session, and I contacted him regarding the free follow up session, and he told me that he would like to my friend, he'd like to hang out with me, and he went on to say that he thought that I was very attractive, a couple of days later at 12:00 midnight he asked me if I wanted to come in too see him for the follow up session on tueday at 9 I told him I couldn't, so he said call him when I have an hour free but then he called me a few days later, out of the clear blue, but didn't leave a message, And I'm thinking didn't he tell me to let him know when I was available so why is he calling me?Can Anyone tell me what the deal is with this guy
2007-01-21 12:02:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Plus, he text messaged me again TODAY, about the free session, when he told me to call HIM, when I HAD time, I just don't understand
2007-01-21 12:03:02 · update #1
Duh.
He likes you, but you've lacked the conviction to give him a clear no because you don't wanna lose out on your free music lesson.
Just tell him that you're taking a break from guitar or you've found another teacher, and wish him good luck and good bye.
2007-01-21 12:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by Dethruhate 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wake up and smell the coffee! That's one of the oldest come-ons in the world. Let's put it this way. What he's interested in isn't your musical progress, and if you play into his hands, you're acting like a willing accomplice. Keep the lessons on a business basis. That means you pay when you can afford to, or you find a less expensive teacher. And you study during business hours
2007-01-21 22:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you alot. He might be obsessive, but sometimes a guy sees a girl he thinks is so beautiful or has the cutest voice or acts the cutest way that he would hate himself forever if he didn't fight hard for her. I think this guy's biggest problem is that he's needy and he's acting like it. He's a little too desperate. Maybe you should tell him that if he likes you he should play it a little cooler. Don't use those exact words because then he might go overboard with it. Hope I helped!
2007-01-21 20:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by Snake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants to have sex with you. He is obviously not free all the time because of either a wife or girlfriend. Sounds like you need to change music teachers. He should never have acted the way he has. It is inappropriate
2007-01-21 20:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The guy likes you more as someone he wants to date, rather than a student.
He only wants to give you free lessons so he can spend time with you.
He has gone over the line and you have to make it clear you don't like his calling or texting you.
Good Luck.
2007-01-21 20:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby he has a huge crush!!
You have to have your eyes open.
If You dont feel the same way..try cancelling those lessons and look for another teacher. This teaches you that NOthing in this world is for free!
Dont receive any gifts from him and be firm.
Say "Didnt you tell me to let YOU know?"..and start..little by little being firmer and firmer..and hope he gets the clue!
2007-01-25 10:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by mswildsexycool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you both anyway?
He's crossed the line afew times already.
He wants something, and it's not about music.
You need a new Music Teacher.
I wouldn't go back, or call him.
2007-01-22 00:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you a lot. However, he is being unethical by trading you free lessons for your company and more than being just friends. Be careful, as it seems to me like he has done this in the past.
2007-01-21 20:14:39 · answer #8 · answered by ANN K 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he sounds like a creep and borders on stalker. caller id and block his number. or have a male friend answer the phone when he calls.
2007-01-23 23:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by xtal6872 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very cautious, it sounds like he might want to be more than friends and to hang out.
Be wary.
2007-01-21 20:09:05 · answer #10 · answered by redeemed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋