My grandma is sick with cancer. It started out with no symptoms, just constant stomach aches. Now the cancer has spread to all of the other organs and she will die in a matter of weeks unless a miracle happens which I believe 2% in. I'm really sad but I don't have the heart to cry it out and I'm getting angry and my uncle is getting angry because he likes her more than his real mother. And my birthday is in May and I want her to live up at least then. Many other grandmas just knit and read books but she used to take me to restaraunts and the buffets that I liked, she gave me money on my birthday, she was nice to me and never got mad at me and for some reason I thought she was cool and so I want you guys to pray for that she goes to heaven. Right now she is in her bed with a headache and stomach ache. She has a billion tumors all over inside her. She even said she was sorry that she couldn't hang out with me because of that. I wished that she just had a heart attack...
2007-01-21 11:57:01 · 11 answers · asked by Purple Frog 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If she had a heart attack she wouldn't have to go through all this pain.
2007-01-21 12:03:20 · update #1
I lost my grandma 6 weeks ago....to a heart attack. It was very difficult and I am still grieving.
I am so sorry you are going through this. Please pray with her before it is too late. Tell her that she must believe with her heart and confess with her heart that Jesus is her savior and she will go to heaven.
I will keep you in my prayers. I know how hard this is
2007-01-21 12:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to lose your grandmother and you don't want her to be in pain either. That is totally understandable. You must accept that death comes to each of us and know that there is only 1 way to heaven. Each person much make that choice for themself and no one can literally be "prayed" into heaven. Your grandmother will need to believe in Jesus, confess her sins and pray that she is forgiven so that she may enter into heaven. She may have already done this...ask her. If you find out that she has then you can have the peace of mind that she is well taken care of and that her journey is assured.
Your grandmother sounds like a very nice lady and I'm sure she would much rather live for a lot longer but that is not to be her fate. You will have many stages to go through and anger is just the first. Spend as much time with her as you can when she feels like having company. Time is all she can give you now and you can reciprocate by giving her time. You will reap the benefit of creating memories that you can carry for the rest of your life and you will know that she enjoyed having you there too!
I will say a prayer for her and for you and your family but you need to talk this over with someone. Talk to your parents, your favorite teacher or a minister. Understanding will come in time.
2007-01-21 20:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by Inquisitive125 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your emotions sound like they're all over the place. You say you want her to live til May, but then you say you want her to die quickly. And there's the miracles that you don't really believe in. In the state that you are in now, you're vulnerable. There are people out there, people who have already answered this question who seek to take advantage of you in this present emotional state. Religion is not what it seems. It has a thin veneer of moral correctness but beneath that surface is a corruption so rotten that it would freeze ones heart were it to be exposed in its filth. For what it's worth, I feel for you in your time of grief. When my granny died, I was pretty emotional too. But please, be wary of those who try to sell you religion at a time such as this.
2007-01-21 20:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by Desiree J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a grandmother and can tell you for sure miracles happen,i am a miracle i had an avm and had to have brain surgery after 3 embulizations that wouldnt keep me from siezing they gave me 80 per cent that i would die and 20 that i would live its a long story but i died and was revived paralyzed on my left side and they said i wouldnt walk but God had other ideas I walk with taking botox shots 800ccs every 3 mths so never give up hope and know that do what you can for your grandmother while she is here and i am praying for you and your family...God be with you
2007-01-21 20:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by loveChrist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry about your Grandma's illness. I felt the same way when my Grandma died, she was my best friend. Soon though, your Grandma will no longer be in pain and you can be thankful for that. God promises a ressurection for her, she will live again and never again worry about illness. Try to be happy about that for her sake. You though, please don't be angry with God, he does not cause the illness or deaths of those we love, in fact, her illness makes him as sad as it does you. I will pray that God gives you the strength to endure this tragedy and that he helps you to find an understanding of why bad things happen to good people.
2007-01-21 20:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by professor grey 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The only way for her to go to heaven when she dies is for her to call on the name of Jesus. She has to confess with her mouth the Lord Jesus and that God sent him to earth to die for her (and all mankinds) sins. She must also believe in her heart that God the father raised Jesus from the dead on the third day and that if she puts her trust in him he will save her from her sins and she will spend eternity with him in heaven. Please,...Please, take this answer seriously....I will be praying that you and your grandmother believe and trust in Jesus as your personal savior. God Bless....
2007-01-21 20:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by Monique 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
God will bring her home when it is her time, she will be out of pain and suffering, I know that you will miss her very much but she is going to a better place and one day it will be your time and you will be able to rejoin her. I will pray for your grandmother and I will pray for you also. Peace and Love to you.
2007-01-21 20:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by Angelz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ill pray 4 u.
2007-01-21 20:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by NoName 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll pray for her. God has a plan--there are no accidents. Trust Him.
2007-01-21 20:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by Heloise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My thoughts are with you & your Grandma :-)
2007-01-21 20:04:41 · answer #10 · answered by Screamin' Banshee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋