i started2 take interest in this guy after i saw him one day at the skating rink. my friends tried to give us opportunity to formally meet at group gatherings, but it never worked out because he never showed up. he didn't know that i liked him so i'm not sure why he didn't show, but anywho.... i still like him. i'm a college senior and i just came back from the break without thinking of him. i actually started to compress my feelings for him and started to turn them elsewhere. then on Friday, i was at the mall in my favorite store with a couple of friends and we spotted him and his brother shopping.....i was SO excited because he was like a walking billboard for my favorite store. this REALLY sparked my interest in him again plus he's a nice guy.
now, i dont know what to do or how to talk to him because we have different majors and never see each other. he works in the skating rink and i thought i'd drop by casually from time2time, but i dont know what else to do. PLEASE HELP ME!!!
2007-01-21 11:55:21 · 9 answers · asked by so_much_2_life! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be Honest with him. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being honest.
Good Luck!
'-)
2007-01-21 11:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are a college senior, I'd say ask him out.......what's the worse thing that will happen .....he'll say no? well, if you don't ask him, you won't know that will you, so it's the same as a no..........when you see him at the rink...which you should frequent more often.....talk to him about school that will break the ice....and then when he has to get back to work, just say, why don't we go get some hot chocolate or coffee or whatever.....or take him some next time......however you do it......get his number and then CALL him.....otherwise you will never know...
2007-01-21 20:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 him dont wait go 2 where he works and hang out there a lot and start talking 2 him and c if hes into u
2007-01-21 20:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont pursue him. let him pursue you. but try to be around him in away that it's possible that you can connect. ask him questions about the rink that makes sense and doesn't look suspicious.
2007-01-21 20:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by sexy c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember that you have to treat him as a friend, so to speak. Get to know him more before you do anything. Good luck.
2007-01-21 20:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be to honest. i told a guy how i felt and he ignored me for like 2 weeks
2007-01-21 20:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by Andi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is an artform. Learn it. Then let him pursue you until you catch him!
2007-01-21 20:11:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punch him in the throat then run like hell sweety, he'll pursue you
2007-01-21 20:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by **Damn its cold up here** 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WELL WHAT I HAVE SEEN IN MY FRIENDS IS THAT WHEN SHE PERSEUS A MAN, HE NEVER ACCEPTS HER INVITE, BUT IF SHE PLAYS HARD TO GET, IT ALWAYS WORKS. I'M A LIVING WITNESS.
2007-01-21 19:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by emanowens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋