My boyfriend and I have been together and lived together for the last two years. I found papers during the summer saying something about him having herpes. This paper was in his handwriting. When I asked him about it, he said that it was just a story he was writing awhile back. Earlier this week, while preparing to wash clothes i found an old prescription package for Acyclovir with his name on it..How should i approach him from this point, and it's obvious to me that I have to ditch him, but what would you do if you were me??
2007-01-21 11:49:21 · 10 answers · asked by prettydebutante 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GO GET YOUR SELF TESTED. THEN CONFRONT HIM AND DEMAND A TEST, BEFORE HE GIVES YOU SOMETHING FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. THERE IS NO CURE FOR HERPES. ALSO IT COULD BE TYPE 1 OR TYPE 2, OR ABOVE THE WASTE AND BELLOW THE WASTE. IT IS POSSIBLE YOU DON'T HAVE IT YET SO STOP ALL CONTACT FOR NOW
2007-01-21 11:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by ULTRA150 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first I would get tested. I'd also talk to him about it. And there are many types of Herpes, so would talk to a doctor about it. You can even call most doctors offices, like Providence, and actually ask a nurse questions. She/he can answer all the questions you may have. But I think before you decide anything, seriously talk to everyone you can and find out all you can. Never go into a situation without learning all you can about it. I hope things work out for you. Have an awesome day! :)
2007-01-25 01:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by Emilie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god, girl I hope you have always used protection or you have it too. You can have it without symptoms. Make a doc appt asap. I had a guy do something similar to me, it wasnt herpes but that makes it no better. I know this is an awful feeling. I don't know what to say. Good luck and I hope he did not pass it to you. Ditch him absolutely, just remember, that if he did pass this to you, you are now stuck with this for life and will have to tell every partner you ever have about it. Guys like this make me sick.
2007-01-21 19:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would go to my Dr. then I would dump him, what a creep.He put you at risk without your consent or knowledge and I can't think of a sadder excuse for a human being. Run girl run..
2007-01-21 19:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by noddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL.... Herpes is a permanent package... time to go...if for nothing else.. chew his @ss up for lying... he could have come clean from the gate...He probably doesn't know where he got it either.... sorry... get checked out...
2007-01-21 19:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by WhoDidThat??? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
STOP TALKING to him GO TO the DOCTORS. Look after yourself. Then think about leaving him 'cause honey he's not worried about your health or well being at all. What else is he not telling you about?
2007-01-21 19:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by peregrynsmum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You obviously don't love him if you are going 2 dump him just because he has herpes. you should just sit down and talk to him.
2007-01-21 19:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by Kristina S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just be honest. ask openly. dont be afraid. i find people who cheat of others, and why bother hiding? just say bye and save a lot of misery and problems. so just ask and know that God is with you.
2007-01-21 19:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
beat his as* up
2007-01-21 20:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by cris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THANK HIM FOR THE DISEASE
2007-01-21 19:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by Mark T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋