Help! Should I do anything or just let it go on?
2007-01-21 11:44:15 · 14 answers · asked by kewlchic189 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would definitely speak to the one who is cheating. Let him/her know that you are hurt by their actions. Discuss with him/her that this puts you in a bad spot and you don't want to be in the middle of your parent's marital problems. This is not fair for you. However, you should do what feels right.
2007-01-21 11:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by StormyC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a sad predicament for you to be in. There is a chance the other one knows and just hasn't figured out what they want to do about it. You should not have to carry this burden yourself. Have you someone in the family that you could trust and feel OK confiding in them? Think it through and be very sure before you do anything. I guess I would go to the one cheating or that you suspect is cheating first and then make a decision if you are going to tell the other. Its a heavy load for you and I'm sorry you have to be involved in this. Sometimes in life the parent acts like the kid and the kid is smarter then the parent.
My thoughts are with you.
2007-01-21 20:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey , you need to talk to the parent who is cheating. Show then the proof and then ask who's going to tell the other one. If you can't do that go to a trusted relative and get their help. Terrible position for you to be in. ouch.
2007-01-21 19:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by peregrynsmum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont tell them straight YET
give them clues like
Mom are u aginst cheating on sumone or like dad are u against cheating on sumone and if u are than if u had done that would u have told me or sumthing
say sumthing like that
than i tink that would make them or one of them spill and i really dont know if ur parent would be spending valintens with each other. and u will be able to no coz one of them or both of them will be like oh i have work today and i wont be able to be home for valintines day or they will make sumthing like that up and if if they do than i tink they will *** home the next day or really really late at night
well do sumthing like that and than tell me how it goes okay
GOOD LUK
2007-01-21 19:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by Zahera♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to the one that is cheating first, let's see what he or she has to say, then give a second change if the person is willing to change, give him or her a dead line and after that if you don't see any change then you talk to the other person. Sometimes we should try to help their relationship instead of destroying it, remember all of us deserve a second change...,
2007-01-21 19:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by ILSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF the proff is UNDENYABLE then go to the one who is cheating and let them know what you know and tell them you r going to the other parent an tell if it isnt stopped immeditaly. life is too short to be in a bad relationship.
2007-01-21 19:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by eddie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me, I would go to the cheating parent and talk to him/her. Don't threaten, or blackmail, just tell them you know and you don't believe it is right. Tell them you wish it would stop. Then stand back and see what happens. BUT don't tell the other one yet.
2007-01-21 19:51:07 · answer #7 · answered by skye 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's your parents business, there's somethings that the parents have to work out foe themselves. Because the parent that is cheating will already feel bad thta his child knows. So just let it ride....
2007-01-21 20:36:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should confront the one who is cheating..... hopefully they will be so ashamed they will come clean with the other parent
2007-01-21 19:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a dilemma! I am so sorry that you have to confront this problem. My suggestion is to seek advice from a qualified counsellor as to how to approach this.
2007-01-21 19:52:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋