Okay so my best friend has been with her bf for 4/5 years.. they have a 1year old kid. When pregnant with her child she found out he had lied to her about his sex life (told her he had slept with 3 women,really only slept with 1)...he told her there was nothing more he had lied about. Recently she found out he had lied about another woman he had almost slept with.. supposedly she forced herself on him..he now admits that its not true.. with both women he said they had forced themselves onto him.. not true. He says he's lied because he is ashamed of those two experiences (his only experiences with women might i add).. She's lied as well about her number (its actually higher than what shes lead him to believe).. Anyway she wants to seperate over this.. Personally I think that would be ridiculous over something like that.. Am I wrong?
2007-01-21 11:30:59 · 8 answers · asked by hwlatmon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It wasn't during the relationship.. they met when he was 18.. everything happened over a year before they met.
2007-01-21 12:24:43 · update #1
Stupid reason to leave someone. Especially when it was only with a few women. I can understand if he said only 1-3 women, when actually it was 20. His past is what it is, his past. Shes one to talk though. Does she really want to split up her family over something so petty? She really needs to think things over before she does something drastic. So no, your not wrong. Talk to her and see if you can get her to change her mind. Especially if hes a great guy and father to their child.
2007-01-21 11:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 10:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the most insanely stupid thing I've ever hear for breaking up!!!
a) leave the poor guys ego alone, most men exagerate how many men they've slept with, I'd understand her problem if he shagged 150 women and said he was a virgin, but saying he's slept with 3 when it was only 1?!?!? Did she want someone more experienced?
2007-01-21 11:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by JT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's ready to flush a relationship with her child's father over something so trivial; just tell her she's a nutjob. There is really nothing more to say, I suspect she's looking for an excuse to kill the relationship. In other words, she's not being "best friend" straight with you either.
He and you should dump her sorry ***.
2007-01-21 11:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont believe that they should seperate thats not a good enough reason but it also depends if it was during their relationship
2007-01-21 11:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by Twizzlers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither one of them deserves to be in a relationship right now. And they certainly shouldn't be reproducing until they can get their acts together.
2007-01-21 11:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by tbonz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a lie is a lie.Maybe she thinks that if he has lied to her about that then what else has he lied about.
2007-01-21 11:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by Jim C 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your question is boring.
2007-01-21 11:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by twopointseven 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋