How long does it usually take for ur girlfriend to tell you that she is ready to do it?
2007-01-21 11:29:13 · 17 answers · asked by kornbready 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is always ready
2007-01-21 11:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by klunk 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is no usual time, I have in the past known, by asking and talking with my girlfriends that now or as soon as we can get to a safe place is long enough, and have been told that it might be months before she is ready to do anything sexual...so just ask her when she thinks that she will be ready, ask her if she is even planning on that with you, she may not be, and then tell her what you expect in a relationship, there is nothing wrong with talking about it, and in fact it is necessary for the both of you to be on the same page when it comes to that subject....
good luck
2007-01-21 11:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with chemky1, it depends on the person. One person might be ready the first night and another not ready until marriage. You should discuss it with her and be open to what she thinks is the right time for her. Whatever you do, do not pressure her to do it if she wants to wait. Pressuring her shows that you don't respect her and that (maybe) you just want to have sex. Talk to her and go from there.
2007-01-21 11:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by Wishing on a Dream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on her age, previous experiences, how much she likes you/is comfortable around you. Personally, if I go on a date with someone I work out whether I want to sleep with them in about ten minutes. But that's just me, and I certainly don't say to the guy, "Hey, let's have sex," I wait for him to make the first move, because essentially I am a very shy person.
But I mean, every person is different and everyone feels varying degress of confidence in their sexuality, and you sound quite young, so I'm going to assume it's going to take you a little while to get laid just yet. Don't pressure her, life is more than just sex.
2007-01-21 12:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask on the first date. if she is still with you 2 minutes later then shes ready.
2007-01-21 11:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whenever she is ready dont force it on her she will tell you when she is ready dont rush into things if you are really a good boyfriend then you'll wait for her to be ready
2007-01-21 11:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by simply happy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends.
If they are um realy realy experienced or not.
They could be the type of girl to wait for abstenance til marriage.
or they could be the type to get right to it.
But averagely it takes a pretty long time.
2007-01-21 11:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by [[<3]] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's differant for every person, but you shouldn't be so concerned about it. Sex isn't all that important and if you love your g/f, then you should just wait however long it takes until she lets you know.
2007-01-21 11:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its usually depends on da person if she's really sexual active then it shouldn't take dat long but if she not really ready then she it will take a while longer
2007-01-21 11:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by Bugz Bunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it just depends some girls may be ready when ever but others arent comfortable so do push she will tell you when she is ready
2007-01-21 11:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by mackenzie.oliver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the situation, age, length of time together etc....maybe never. Talk to her and see what she is feeling.
2007-01-21 11:32:08 · answer #11 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋