Ok so i was going out with a girl and yesterday she dumped me at a party. This morning one of my friends used my phone and asked a girl out over text messaging, saying that it was me, and the girl said yes. now today my old girlfriend sent me an email saying she should not have dumped me so suddenly and that her friends told her to do it etc. what do i do? i have an ex girlfriend that wants to still go out, but now i have a new gf that i didnt even ask. HELP!!!
2007-01-21 11:25:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell the new gf that it was a mistake/bad prank and apologize even though you did no wrong.
Leave the old gf alone. She is a put her friends over your feelings and it won't be the last time. She's too easily influenced.
2007-01-21 11:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by tbonz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an old girlfriend dump me, then when she found out I was getting close to a girl she knew she came on to me all over again. Then when it was clear she didnt have to worry about that girl anymore she dumped me again.
Honestly, I would tell the one that dumped you that she can wait her turn. After all you do not owe her anything now, and if she doesn't like waiting she should not have dumped you.
2007-01-21 19:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by days_o_work 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To thine own self be true. You are exclusively able to "play the field" now. I would make dates with both of them. Your desire to ask this on this forum makes me believe that you really don't mind being available. I, personally wouldn't be too crazy about being committed to a girl who does what her friends tell her to do. Keep her for the haha's. Be a gentleman though. Let her know that you are seeing other people and she is free to do so as well. Don't keep it from her, then it dishonest. Or you can simply cancel your blind date and make up with your g/f.
2007-01-21 19:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by vince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go back to the old girlfriend, she threw u away and she may just want to use u, plus she might dump u again and u dont want that i say she lost out and u should talk to the new girl
2007-01-21 19:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st you ex is an ex for a reason. If it was a "joke" then that is LOW! So I say give the new girl a chance because you ex seems like she can not form her own opinions.
2007-01-21 19:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by ~L~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay who do u want more the new or old and if you didnt ask the new one dump her and see what happens witht he old
2007-01-21 19:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by simply happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy land in the Himalayas and join the friar's club. If you got to go through girl troubles like that who can't make up their mind, avoid the mental train wreck and get that passport.
2007-01-21 19:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with the new girl and see if she is better. tell the old girl you need some time to think about it. then if new girl is better in a significant way stay with new girl. either way do not let either girl know what is going on and if you cant not talk about your ex when with new girl stay with the ex
2007-01-21 19:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump the new one, just tell her the storie, she has to understand that its nt your fault and just date the old one again
2007-01-21 19:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not give the new girl a chance, date her one time and
if you don't like her, then go out with your ex girlfriend.
2007-01-21 19:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by MFD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋