i'm not getting enough of anything from my bf. i love him to pieces, and i wanna just be happy with him. but it does feel like we dont take care of each other any more, sexually, emotionally, nothing lol. i stay because i love him, and we have gone through alot. but it feels like history rather than something which is right now. is there a way to rekindle? i try to do the normal things to spark it up, i can be pretty wild in bed, i even said 'do you wanna threesome' and i try to be romantic, buy him little gifts, show him i love him. i know he loves me, but like if we have a fight he blames me, even if i'm upset with him, it's my fault. i'm not feeling the affection, i remember it used to be amazing. that's why i stay. cos of how it was.
2007-01-21 11:21:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its sad to stay if you feel like that
I know
that threesome thing could be great I think, with the right people
just the thought of it makes me kind of crazy wild, 2 women and me though, not ready for 2 men and 1 woman, yet anyway
2007-01-21 11:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually just went throught the same type of situation with my ex-boyfriend. I tried to hold on, hoping that we would go back to the way it was before. It just didn't ever happen. We would barely even talk to eachother and when we did, I would hold the fact that we hardly ever talk against him. So we were both so frustrated with eachother. Finally he brought up the topic of taking some time apart. It was such a relief because I don't feel like I NEED to make the relationship work. If we get back together under the right circumstances, then that would be great. If not, I am fine with it. Perhaps you should consider doing the same thing. You may just feel like a big weight is lifted off your shoulders.
2007-01-21 19:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by missconfused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the problem with women. Too much fantasies, a man can only pretend for so long until he gets tired and just acts himself. About the fight, I dont think anybody blames themselves in an argument. If he loves you, he loves you, thats all you need. Please make it easy on us, a little realness
2007-01-21 19:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by chromegrill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its over. if you have to ask that question its time to get out. I've had a problem like that before. i loved him but you know we where always fighting and he always blamed me. you will and he will fell alot better when you guys are apart. you need someone who will be there for you and don't blame you for the sky falling down on his head. am Glad i got out of mine now. now i have found the one for me. and its wonderful.
2007-01-21 19:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it has gone dull and you tried everything you should give him some space so that he too can miss the good times.
2007-01-21 19:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there's someone better out there for you. even though it's hard, i think you should move on. you should not have to try this hard to make it work, b/c then you'll be trying the rest of your relationship and that can be exhausting.
2007-01-21 19:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by aries8422 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably over. Get on with your life!
2007-01-21 19:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he feel the same way? i guess its over if even one you feel like that
2007-01-21 19:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by Bloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋