What do guys look for in a girl? Is it how they look like or there personality? Or is it both?
2007-01-21 11:08:45 · 25 answers · asked by chao w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well guys lok 4 a girl mostly the look then personality but some guys lok 4 personality who know ?
2007-01-21 11:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by Vany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I meet a girl and she is attractive, then you start talking and most of them their favorite topic is theirselve. Your looking for a break in the conversation to get out of there. That gets pretty boring after a while.
Or maybe she has an education and a job and she talks about that. Shows she is intelligent and going places. That makes her interesting. So yes both and a lot more.
Do you like a man because he is attractive? or because he has a good personality? Or he has a good job and is fun and interesting to talk to? Or does he talk about his kids? would that be a real turn off?
2007-01-21 19:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by Steven 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it’s both because, first, lets admit that most people, boys or girls attract first in the outside appearance of person. Then when they become lovers, they discover the the deeper personality of each other. Thats why even the most beautiful lover broke up. I think it is because of their personality.
2007-01-21 19:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both. but i have to say the personality plays the major part (including the brain as well). here is the case.
1) pretty girls - you're attracted to them easily and you feel like getting to know them. when you know her, you will soon find out how her personality is (and the brain again).
2) so-so to non-pretty girls - you're not initially attracted but if you happen to know them and you find out that their personality suits you, then there you go.
### special cases:
1) pretty - but then super stupid - you girls are just for fun
2) ugly + bad personality - just go kill yourself
### conclusion: girls with a good-look get a plus point, men are interested to know you - this is the fact.
2007-01-21 19:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by williams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When guys are young it's looks. When they're old, it's personality. In between it's both.
2007-01-21 19:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by zach 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing a man sees is the appearance, but he soon learns to love the personality of the person they are meant to be with. I enjoy honest, caring, and wise women.
2007-01-21 19:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter? I don't think anyone goes out and categorizes all the women he meets, then sits down and does the math before deciding which one he wants to date. Love and chemistry happen when you least expect it, and it's usually totally different than what you had imagined. You don't choose who to love; love chooses you. So you might ask love what kind of person IT chooses to bestow it's charms upon!
2007-01-21 19:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really depend on my mood. Might feel like good conversation, then I'll look for a good personality. If horny, just some good @ss
2007-01-21 19:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
both. physical attraction is first, of course. then personality. im not saying that one outweighs the other...just saying which order it usually comes in.
more physical attraction can give a little leeway on personality in most cases.
2007-01-21 19:12:29 · answer #9 · answered by angie20k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks but mainly personality. I have to be able get along with them.
2007-01-21 19:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by foodguru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋