When I'm intimate with someone I say incredibly dirty things..........
more then the usual "ahhhhhhhh do me, feels good"!!
I know I can't mention what I say here, but it can be pretty bad.
I think I have caught some lovers off guard.
My question is...... should I tone it down a bit?
Is this strange? Anyone have the same problem?
2007-01-21 11:06:33 · 27 answers · asked by CURVY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not tone it down; I love it when you talk dirty with me. The nastier the better sexy! When is our next party together?
2007-01-22 01:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by ICARRYABIGSTICK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm trying to think what kinda dirty talk you would use. I have been with many women in the past who were too afraid to express their dirty thoughts...now that WAS BAD...........
Personally, I would love for a girl to talk dirty, doesnt matter how dirty, I bet I can be a lot more dirty, I have tried to be a dirty talker with non dirty talker girls but it doesnt work so well..hehe...try me!
2007-01-22 11:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, some guys are a little uncomfortable with it, including my husband so I've had to tone it down too. It sucks that you can't just do it and scream what ever you want to but that's just the way it is.
2007-01-21 11:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might wanna tone it down a little bit. Ask your partner if it they like it when you talk dirty like that. It might turn them on. But if you have a shy guy or something you might freak them out. I would ask them if they like it when you talk real dirty like that.
2007-01-21 11:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to talk in bed also and depending on the mood it can be sweet and gently or rough and pretty hard core...I think you are absolutely normal. Be yourself and i am sure every man you are with will enjoy!!!
2007-01-21 11:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one needs to push the envelope
but from inside the other person's head
other person being the person you are talking with
you need to be 'related' cozily in such a way......
over there behind thier eyes
and then you can say anything at all any way you want
2007-01-22 07:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by lowroad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Melrose if it works for both of you, then there should not be a problem. Keep up the good work. Spank me, Harder, Harder, yes like that you dirty #$%^ little, @%$&. Kidding have fun.
2007-01-21 11:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No do not tone it down. If it turns you on sexually I am quite sure it will turn your partner on too. You are having sex not afternoon tea with your maiden aunt! Do whatever you need to do (consensually) to maximise your plesasure and your partner's pleasure.
2007-01-21 11:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by Flab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, keep it up...but do it in private..
I'm really good, especially over the phone, or "phone sex" LOL. Sex over the waves. Anyway, outside in the everyday life, I show my professionalism & ethics... but with a date, I can make her melt to her shoes without even touching her.
2007-01-21 11:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by Nightsky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO absolutely NOT...keep up the dirty talk for the sake of every man on the planet.
2007-01-21 11:09:47 · answer #10 · answered by s w 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋