theres this guy i like, and have liked for the past 5 years. i think about him everyday, every moment. i cant really express it but im in love with the way he walks slow sometimes so i can walk beside him (or maybe its my imagination), and the way he looks at me from across the room & we just hold eachothers gaze for a second or two, the way he flings his hair out of his face every five seconds, the way our names sound so good together, the way just him saying hello brings me to my knees. ive been moving in and out of his area within the past few years & i cant even find myself a boyfriend to distract me cause im looking for one with my eyes closed, him in mind. now, ive moved again, 300 miles away & my heart aches just to see his face, be in the same room with him, & breathe the air he breathes. im too shy to do anything about it and it makes me hate my self. my friends say he shows interest in me but i cant be sure & my hearts been broken to many times to step out there again.advice?
2007-01-21 11:06:17 · 14 answers · asked by love_always 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think E-mail was invented for people who are shy (so was text messaging). Write him an e-mail, something innocuous to get the conversation started. Slowly introduce in your e-mails the feelings you have (the way he looked one day, how you think about him when you see the sun set a certain way, etc).
300 miles . . . wow. Life's a dance, you sometimes just have to take the lead. It sounds like he may be shy, too. Two attractive people who like each other . . . someone has to break the ice.
Good luck!
2007-01-21 11:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
300 miles away - what have you got to lose? Life is for living my friend. Don't let the opportunity slip away unexplored. You don't have to put your heart on the line, but you can sure talk to him and see if he feele the same way about you.
I'll tell you, the dating game is just that - and I don't mean to make light here. We date to refine our search for an ideal mate. We find someone we want to get to know better, that leads to dating, that leads to relationship, etc. - but if he is not the one, another will come along and he will be way better than the last (even though the last one seemed pretty good too) - do you see what I mean. There is no reason to shut down due to a few painful relationships. You learn from them and you move on. Trust yourself - trust the process of life - tell him how you feel. What's the worst that can happen? He is flattered but doesn't feel the same and you live 300 miles away and have closure so you can move on - you are at least not plagued by the "what ifs".
Peace!
2007-01-21 11:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww! I'm sorry that you have moved away again! Unless you know you are moving into the same city again for good the best thing that I can advise you to do is let it be. I know that you don't want to hear that, but you can't have the relationship that you will want from 300 miles away. It'll be hard on both of you, not only, it may ruin any chances for later on in life! So, just stay in touch with the man of your dreams as his friend and then see what happens later! Don't let someone else slip on by you, because you're blinded by lust! Good Luck!
2007-01-21 11:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by lil' miss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow.... its almost like this thing ive been going through with the guy that i have liked for 1 and 1/2 years.... Believe me the best thing ot do is talk to him and tell him how u feel.... U expressed that u were shy well then get a friend to tell him or write him a note... Its the best way! GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-01-21 11:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by SweetiePie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
initially, he continues to be youthful. meaning, he hasn't stepped ahead a mature mindset about sex/love/relationships. The undesirable lady he's with then no longer with then with again is nearly a drug. A extreme for him, he's always on the sting of his seat. he isn't any longer searching at trusting her, he's searching to sleep with him. Be VERY careful with a guy like this. Yeah, your a virgin, this is staggering exceptionally now days with those variety of ailments and crap. to grant your self with protection, allow him pass. he's youthful, your youthful, you've your entire existence earlier than you to ask your self what a authentic relationship might want to correctly be like. basically don't be bitter the subsequent time a guy rolls your way. He for sure doesn't understand what he needs yet. hi, basically imagine, your going to be 21 authentic quickly. basically imagine of all the boys you'll meet and performance some authentic relaxing with. No concerns. allow him pass.
2016-10-17 02:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have his phone number or e mail address if so you could always contact him I think he s interested in you but you just have to make the first move if you shy to talk to him by himself meet him in a public area and then talk to him.
2007-01-21 11:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is for sure in life--the only thing that's for sure is our eventual death. Therefore, if he shows interest, respond---but make sure that your infatuation doesn't turn into an obsession--because that would be the best way to lose him for good...
2007-01-21 11:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by What Will The Spill Kill? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're definately too shy. If he really liked you, and you know it, he or you should go out. If not, then not. Can't force the issue. If that's the case, try your best to forget about Prince Charming.
2007-01-21 11:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by the BABY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want something so badly, you have to go for it. No one will do it for you and you have to be willing to accept the outcome, whatever it is. The hardest things in life usually have the greatest rewards. Do it or get over it.
2007-01-21 11:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by zach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk right up to him and say" I have two questions will you try to answer them for me"?
I think i'm pregnant could you possibly be the father,?
when he sais
how could that be we never have been out together, then you say that was my next question.
he will laugh his head off and you will have opened the door.
2007-01-21 11:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by t-bone 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋