Me and my best friend were both 16 and on the water polo team, and yesterday we were hanging out and we finished a wine bottle. And then we sat in bed together and then he kissed me and i don't know why but i didn't push him off, and then i got an errection. Then my mom called my name from the hallway and he stopped and before she walked in he jumped out of the bed and said he had to leave. Is this like faith trying to warn me or something. I mean he has jet black hair with shimmering green eyes and i love looking into his eyes but i would never want to screw him or be screwed by him. And then yesterday in the shower he looked into my eyes and he had like a moment or something and i got out quickly. I mean i still love my girlfriend and i don't want to lose her but i haven't told her about this and i tell her everything and its killing me. What does this mean? I mean he dosn't sound gay.
2007-01-21 10:58:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Sports ➔ Water Sports
I dont know, man.
I've never gotten an erection from a dude.
Of course i've never given a guy the idea that it would be ok to kiss me. You're definitely sending out vibes.
"he doesnt sound gay"? He's at least bi, i think the definition of gay/bi would be if he was attracted to guys, and clearly he is.
..."I love looking into his shimmering green eyes"...um... buddy, youre bisexual too if not gay.
But that being said man, figure out yourself and be proud of it. I'm all for gay/lesbian rights, you deserve the same freedom as everybody else, marriage and all.
2007-01-23 16:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's scary but you aren't gay. Guys at your age can get an erection off anything and maybe you were just having a "moment". But don't worry...you aren't gay, guys your age get curious and maybe it was, just like I said, a weird moment. Your friend might be....but only in time will you find out. If you are still feeling scared or confused talk to a trusted counselor or someone you can trust.
2015-09-28 14:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by I love lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe..maybe not. Your only 16. You may be curious and like someone said.your in puberty anything will make you hard. And if you are gay or bisexual or striaight it shouldnt matter, cuz there is nothing wrong with it. If your comfortable exploring and trying to figure things out than would be great to stop all this confusion ur having.
PS. by the way you described his eyes id say you liked him...i could be wrong.. but my opinion.
2007-01-23 05:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by tennisboyusa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but your sixteen and if he is your best friend how much safer could you be to experiment and how ackward would it be for you to have to tell him you don't have feelings for him??
I think your just curious and he is safe to experiment with, but you need to make sure your on the up and up with him incase he is gay. You don't want to lead someone around due to your own curiousity.
2007-01-23 14:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by espressoaddict22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha aw. your so confused. no this doesnt mean your gay if you still love your girlfreind and everything. you could be gay but only you would know that right? just think about it more before you make any choices. you could have just been turned on by this. your just curious, thats it. im positive everyones been curious one point in there life.
2007-01-21 14:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 16 and still learning about sex and probably just curious. Alot of young girls go through the same thing. Just part of growing up. Liz
2007-01-22 21:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you were drunk or somthing when that happend you probly arent gay, but your friend does sound kind of gay. as for you liking his eyes theres nothing wrong with that, a girl could have eyes like his also, and you could love her eyes that way too... i dont think your gay
2007-01-21 14:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 16...just about anything will cause an erection. Don't worry about being gay or straight...you'll know for sure after puberty.
2007-01-21 11:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep! You're queer as a football bat. Cut the old lady loose so she can get a real man, 'cause you're on the market for totem pole!!!
2007-01-21 16:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by wildraft1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you're bi or curious if you're saying you still love your girlfriend
2007-01-21 11:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by msmith4950@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋