Me and my best friend were both 16 and on the water polo team, and yesterday we were hanging out and we finished a wine bottle. And then we sat in bed together and then he kissed me and i don't know why but i didn't push him off, and then i got an errection. Then my mom called my name from the hallway and he stopped and before she walked in he jumped out of the bed and said he had to leave. Is this like faith trying to warn me or something. I mean he has jet black hair with shimmering green eyes and i love looking into his eyes but i would never want to screw him or be screwed by him. And then yesterday in the shower he looked into my eyes and he had like a moment or something and i got out quickly. I mean i still love my girlfriend and i don't want to lose her but i haven't told her about this and i tell her everything and its killing me. What does this mean? I mean he dosn't sound gay.
2007-01-21 10:57:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't have to want to 'screw' anyone to be gay. you'd know that...i mean, when you like someone do you always think of having sex first?
i think you are bi, which is NOT A BAD OR A WRONG THING. cheer up!
but then again, all people feel attracted to same-sex people at least once in their lives, homosexual or not. it would be a bit too rash to just say that you are gay/bi right now.
Good luck!
2007-01-21 11:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by meh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not really. Experimenting when you are young doesn't make you gay (or not gay for that matter). You are 16, if you are honest with yourself, you probably know deep down whether you are attracted to boys or not. Is also possible that you like boys AND girls. Either way, being attracted to one guy, once, doesnt mean you are gay. Most people don't live their lives never ever being attracted to someone of the same sex. You can be straight and still have the occasional thought or attraction involving another man. Sexuality isnt black and white.
Check this out, its something to think about - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale
2007-01-21 11:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by Deirdre C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Then my mom called my name from the hallway and he stopped and before she walked in he jumped out of the bed and said he had to leave. Is this like faith trying to warn me or something. I mean he has jet black hair with shimmering green eyes and i love looking into his eyes "
YES SIR
2007-01-21 11:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by chromegrill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you enjoyed it, but that doesn't necessarily mean you're gay...you could be bisexual, in which case you don't have to lose your girlfriend, if you care about her. I think a good idea would be to talk to your friend about the whole situation also and find out what his thoughts are about you.
And you don't *have* to tell your girlfriend, unless you think it's necessary...I'd say figure out what's going on between you and your friend, and then decide what you want to do.
Hope I helped!
~ris~
2007-01-21 11:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by Ris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to make one fall in love ppl do those things man or woman..looking at each other, surprise kiss..I don't think it was faith telling u something I think it was ur friend trying to tell u something. u need to do some serious thinking to see how u feel stay away from both ur girlfriend and friend for a while and see how u feel it is not about them it is about u..
THINK what you want to do with YOUR life!
2007-01-21 11:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by unverified 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If on your waking international you have an interest in men you're bi-sexual why does all and sundry evaluate it to be one or the different? besides NO, you're no longer gay in case you dream of intercourse with yet another dude. you do no longer say in case you recognize this guy or woman or no longer. yet you do become attentive to strongly with the male physique using fact of this you had this dream
2016-10-31 22:50:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hideeho! Mr Hankey thinks your friend is gayer than Waylan Smithers. If you are pitching a trouser tent over him then you probably are too. Mr Hankey isn't judging but be honest with your girlfriend. Kissy!
2007-01-21 11:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be bisexual. It certianly sounds that way. This is something that only you can answer, but if you love your girlfriend I think you should be careful around this guy b/c it seems like he likes you for sure.
2007-01-21 11:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys in bed, he kissed you & you got an erection! hmmm, he is definitely gay, and he is turning you gay as well... talk to your gul and get all the support from her, end of the day its your choice.
2007-01-21 11:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by Ahmad A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you both sound gay. sorry. but what God wants to happen will happen and everything happens for a reason.
2007-01-21 11:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋