Im 17 and i want to have ababy i know is not normal in a guy but want to go to college u know i want something to support my family anyway is not normal in a guy is theres something wrong with me? and if there anyway to stop this?
if u wondering yeah im straight
2007-01-21 10:48:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no there is nothing wrong with you, but i think you should wait until you are done with college because that would be way better support for your family then having a baby because babies cost a lot to take care of.
2007-01-21 10:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a family find a girl to marry. I know there are lots of desperate ones out there. But you may feel regretful someday you didn't move ahead in your studies or career. What you could do maybe to satisfy your need to be around babys and childern is to get a part time job or voluneteer at a day care or preschool, and then get your studies complete and find a good job.
2007-01-21 18:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by Em C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but that is ridiculous. I am 16, and have NO plan to have a kid in the next few years. It's too early too make a lady a mother. Think about it- if you do that now, you may end up stuck with some girl that you end up hating and then you might stay together and be miserable for the rest of your life, or you might get a divorce and totally mess with your kid's life. I don't think you want to screw up anyone's future so early. You obviously have other plans, so don't throw them away. Wait. You will thank yourself later.
2007-01-21 19:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by Nissie-D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I think that is cute. Anyway, you may feel this way because you just want someone to care for and a good reason to always do well and a baby seems to help people with that.
2007-01-21 18:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by shy eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be having or wanting a baby. Think, how are you going to support a baby if you don't finish your education? Babies are time consuming and very expensive. I don't think you are ready for that.
2007-01-21 18:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Deborah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you won't have any problem finding a girl who will have your baby.
2007-01-21 18:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋