my boy freind dumped me in a realy mean why
2007-01-21 10:46:57 · 26 answers · asked by alice m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a coward and probably was afraid of having to face you after the break-up so he just decided that if he is really mean about it, you'll never want to speak to him again!
If you need to get over him then move on. Get rid of anything physical that reminds you of him (papers, books, clothes, etc.) Delete his phone number off your cell, his screenname off your buddy list, say to yourself that he dumped you, he doesn't like you, and you will get over him - and accept it. Ask your friends to please not bring him up in front of you, stop yourself from getting excited if you think you're going to run into him, treat his existence like you would any regular person. In the meantime, find some gorgeous celebrity (should I suggest Hayden Christensen? <3) and fawn over him for awhile.
This should really help, it worked for me!
2007-01-21 10:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep these 3 things in mind: FRIENDS, REALITY and that he is UNWORTHY of YOUR LOVE!
dumping someone is not a very good thing from someone who is sensitive with others feelings.So that's already a sign he is will not be there for those crucial times.I know that what you're goin through is not easy.But plese dont think of anything nasty coz that wont make you any diffrent.Little by little you will move on.never stoop down and try to chase him back coz he will just be too proud of it, instead...IGNORE HIM the best way you can.It's not easy but it's such a SWEET REVENGE when he realizes your completely over him and he was sorry for being mean to you.This things will really hurt...but only for a time, soon enough you will find laughing that broken heart and whenever you see or talk about him...is just like a leftover food...believe me
2007-01-21 11:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by maldita_mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to get over a boy. Have a girls night out with your friends, eat popcorn, paint your nails and watch movies, corny things work. And don't beat your self up about his meaness or the way he did it. There will be an awesome guy out there for you.
2007-01-21 10:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by Les-Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. You deserve better. If he dumped you its his loss. The fact that he was mean about it, is inexcusable. You will find a nicer guy down the road so don't cry over this looser!
2007-01-21 10:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it took me a while to get over this boy. I realized to go for someone else. if he was mean to you than he wasn't the right guy. You never know when you get another guy he might beg to get back together wit you !victory!
2007-01-21 10:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by luv_brandon_4_ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of all the bad things that he has done to you.
& how much you hate him for dumping you.
Just get a hobby and be happy with your friends,
keep occupied. have fun, enjoy life.
being single can be fun.
good luck.
2007-01-21 11:01:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, Time heals all wounds. You can't hurry or rush time either. So use it wisely. Think about what you want in your next man. Then one day, when you are not even expecting it, you'll find someone who truly adores you and wants to seriously be with you. I know because...It happened to me!
2007-01-21 10:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by Nique T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is to think of all the negative times u had together and focus on them solidly. i works for both boy loss an girl loss
2007-01-21 10:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the relationship can or connot final long reckoning on how far aside they are. in case you elect to hold close out with him, perhaps a number of his friends can connect you and a few of your friends so as that it's going to no longer be uncomfortable and yuo get to hold close out
2016-12-12 17:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well youre obviously really young, chill out, move on, blokes are insensitive jerks, especially when they're young. I'm sure he didn't mean to upset you, just move on and let go and don't stress about it or put yourself down
2007-01-21 11:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋