wont be able to make it to my senior prom. and then when he gets back around my graduation he have a few days to spend with me and then he leaves for ait. what can i do to pass the time besides wait for his calls when he is able to call.
2007-01-21 10:46:51 · 13 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
we will last in fact we have been talking about marraige, im just wanting to know some ideals to pass the time and keep in contact with him while he is gone
2007-01-21 10:55:29 · update #1
ill get to see him at least once inbetwwen his basic and ait because his basic and ait are on fort wood in missouri and i live real close.
2007-01-21 11:27:36 · update #2
it dosnt frustrate me i just wanted to know some ways to keep in touch.
2007-01-21 15:07:15 · update #3
its not ht i caint handle him not being here i just wanted to know some ways to keep on touch, its not like his basic and ait ae far away either, we both live near the base in wich he will be on so therfore we he can leave or whatever and inbetwwen basic and ait ill see him.
2007-01-22 04:13:50 · update #4
Write him letters, include pictures. You can't believe how much guys in basic like to get letters, especially from pretty girls.
2007-01-21 11:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Yak Rider 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you can't handle him missing your senior prom then you can't handle being a military wife. Sorry to be blunt. Basic and AIT are just the beginning of missed birthdays, anniversaries, funerals, births... etc.
To actually answer your question.. Why don't you focus on school? That would seem to be the logical answer. Get a job, hang out with friends, write him letters.
2007-01-22 03:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
write letters and dont count on him getting leave in between basic and ait most dont they are shipped straight there from basic.
write lots of letters once you get an address from him. and dont be surprised if it takes a month or longer to hear back. they dont get much free time. focus on school. get good grades and prepare for college. and get to know his parents really well as you dont matter at all to the army his parents will as they are his next of kin. until your his wife you dont matter.to the military at least good luck this will be a good test for you to see if you really are ready to be married and committed this will be a good test of how well you can handle deployments and other seperations. as they happen alot in the military
2007-01-21 19:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
girl,
Think it through if you are already frustrated now. If you marry to a serviceman, you have to be prepared for this type of separation all the time, for some people, it can be a life-and-death separation.
It's okay to follow the heart, but you also need to use your mind as well. I am not saying you should leave him, but you really have to make sure you can do this for as long as he has to be.
2007-01-21 23:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by Spring Snow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Studying would be good, community service, preparing yourself for after graduation, enjoying your senior year. There are a million things you can go to use your time wisely. You BF will be very very busy, so the less of a burden you are on him the better off you both will be.
2007-01-21 18:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your predicament.
Write tons of letters, both E-mail and paper letters; enroll in college to keep yourself occupied so you don't have to dwell on the fact that your love is not with you . . .
2007-01-21 18:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He is going to cheat on you in the long run anyways because all Military guys do when they are away from home - So be done with it and find another BF - Your in highschool anyways so any chance of marriage with him is going to fail anyways because your too young and stupid!!!
2007-01-22 03:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by JynX 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
write a journal
2007-01-21 18:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get a job
2007-01-21 19:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by fuufingf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him lots of letters he will be so thankful for it. and for yourself you could do volunteer work in your community they would be very thankful for that
2007-01-21 18:51:00 · answer #10 · answered by erin c 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋