Actually she is my cousin sister and lives in the same house!!!!
I am afraid that one day she will tell her parents about us....
and she says that she has fallen in love with me seriously........
and also says that love can happen one time..........
i think she is scaring me by telling all that..........
Her parents are seeking a husband for her...........by this she gets uncomfortable and comes to me and speaks about our relationship......
what should i do?????
pls tell me........................
2007-01-21 10:35:52 · 20 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just take a deep breath &think where U are going??
its very natural to have a crush on some1 senior..
but thats liking &nt loving..
m sure U like her..
but she 's your elder sis & evry sis loves her brother..
bt maybe due 2 some circumstances she might have been lonely soo she started fantasizing abt U..
U also had a weak spot 4 her (like every bro does),probably felt sorry for her &U thot u loved her..
THAT"S the story..
come backto reality..
cz this relationship will get U nowhere..
it's will create a rift in yr families..(do U want that)?
U r nt yet 18,so if her parents want they will marry her offf..
they probably will very soon..
but if U people r very serious..
then tell her 2 wait 4 6yrs..by then u'll get a decent job &then u'll can marry without thinking abt social obligations..
but tats a long project..
GOD bless U
2007-01-21 13:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by dincpurple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let her fool you by saying that love can happen only one time. you can love others and you will eventually. don't let her make you think that this is your one and only chance for love.
if this could possibly break up the household, then maybe you should not go any further with this relationship. at least not yet. i would suggest waiting until you are a bit older and moved out of the house. maybe the tension wouldn't be so tight then if you two decided to come out with the relationship.
2007-01-21 10:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide what is best for you. If you are in love with this woman and you want to marry her then your problem is solved. If you are not ready then you have to tell her how you feel. If you are not ready to bring out the relationship that you have then you are not ready for the relationship she wants. That's the problem with people today! They don't take the time to communicate and discuss the issue at hand. You were man enough to start then be man enough to finish!
2007-01-21 10:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by doodie315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a fool & your cousin is a dam fool. Don’t you know any such relationship between close relationship is incest & forbidden morally & socially. Even law does not permit marriage between people related to each other as it is relationship within the prohibited degree. Forget her & concentrate on your studies now. You are too young for all these relationship at this stage of life when studies should be your priority....!!!!
2007-01-21 16:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young and have a lot of time to find the right person for you so run as fast as you can get out of their you don't need that you will find someone that will love along the way that is not family, so sweet heart run away from that relationship as fast as you can
2007-01-21 11:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥LOVED♥♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r 17 & u r liking somebody 6 or 7 year younger then u that makes her around 10, 11? this age is to fall in love? don't u think its way too early? its time for ur (& hers) studies. think about that not 10 year old girl!& when u get older then u can think about it but this isn't time, at least not for her. It'll ruin her education her mind (mainly). if i knew where u from it was easy to advise u. but really if u take my advice, "THIS IS NOT LOVE". so leave it & move on maybe in future she'll be ur destiny but for now keep ur mind on books. I know it's hard but try it & u'll be happy. Good luck.
2007-01-21 11:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by ZK431 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is sick and based on the state you live in it may be illegal talk to her mom and find out if she really knows and approves if she does contact the police and child services because that is just starting that girl off for a rough and rocky life.
2016-05-24 08:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on whether you are deriving pleasure or not from the arrangement. Does she give good head? Do you like it? If so, then don't worry about how you feel, or how anybody else feels, just keep it going as long as you are getting pleasure out of it.
2007-01-21 11:34:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you can't have a relationship with her because you are related and she is too old for you. It is against the law to go out with family or someone who is over 18 when your under18.
2007-01-21 11:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by valerie h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to her immediately. Get a lock on your door if you have to! You risk becoming a father (you're clearly not ready for that). And since you're a minor, she could get arrested.
2007-01-21 10:39:54 · answer #10 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋