divorced , I didn't live with him b/c I have 4 children and didn't want to put the kids through turmoil; we dated along with all the other stuff but few sleepovers at his house (never mine) He has never had a discussion about marriage; I would not have trusted him to sell my house and move in and with good reasons ; he only paid if we went on vacation together or out for dinner; his friends and he has many many come first; I went to his house last night after he told me to come over later and he wasn't home; he left me a note; I stayed for 45 minutes and then left him a note be back soon - how soon 15 mins , 45 minutes; guess where he had to go ? to see his friend's birds ; the same friend who came over earlier in the day and I lfeft then ; today he tells me I make doctor visits and that his pals mean more b/c they are always there for him - thoughts , comments
2007-01-21 10:35:15 · 9 answers · asked by sml 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds exactly like an uncle of mine, who never married, but was close. after uncle died found some old letters his girlfriend wrote him, in them it said she was leaving him, she mentioned one reason was for his selfishness. he shows little respect for u, doesn't intend to marry u. treats you disrespectfully, and has new priorities his friend with the birds. now when u confront him about how u feel about waiting so long, instead of being sorry he comes back at u making u the reason for the problem. so sorry u wasted all these years on this man. should known better, but than maybe we all get too smart too late and too old too soon. good luck and god bless.
2007-01-21 10:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 21:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it - no respect - why would you want to continue with a relationship with this man. Concentrate on your 4 children. The right man will come along in time.
2007-01-21 10:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by jammer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your friend told you ,laut and clear that his other friends are allways there,even you cared more for him,please my dear listen to him,drop yhim like a hot stone,or cold.Find something else,you ar the greatest person having four kids.Love youself,love your kids and you have no time to wait for anybody else.
2007-01-21 10:43:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he wants to continue living without having responsibilities, to him you are what nowadays is called friend with benefits, if it were otherwise he'd have asked you long ago,let go and have fun meeting new people.
2007-01-21 10:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by Georgewasmyfavorite 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy isn't into commitments. You should figure out if you still want him in your life or sit him down and talk to him about this. If not, ditch him.
2007-01-21 10:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get a life
2007-01-21 10:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him
2007-01-21 10:37:46 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU made the choice to live this way...why are you blaming him?
2007-01-21 10:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋