Things that I want in a man. We had a nice day together when we met. We live about 3 hours apart. I knew right away that he was a good man. We had a nice day and we clicked. I knew that he was a little apprehensive about getting involved right after he left my home that day, but my heart was already falling for him. So, we never saw each other again, because he stated that he couldnt be a minister and be tied down. Well, we have spoken a few times since then and then this past Friday we spoke. He told me how much he loved our time together and that he would like to be together again. Then he called on Saturday evening too. I know that he has been hurt in the past and has thought for a long time that he isnt meant to be married again, as he was married once before. I think that he is afraid of being hurt again. I love him and miss him. If he asked me, I would marry him. I think he is who I am meant to be with, that God is bringing us together. What do you think? Serious answers only...
2007-01-21 10:32:29 · 6 answers · asked by Heather S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
seriously, there is something he is not telling you.
The fact that he is a Christian means nothing, as they are the most heinous group of people in the world. (I was a southern baptist for the first 30 years of my life)
Find Someone Else, he is not being truthful.
2007-01-21 10:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its way too soon. If you start rushing this man then that for sure will push him away. If its meant to be as you say, then it will still be meant to be in a year or 2 or 3. Take your time and be patient if you care for him or if you want to give it a try.
2007-01-21 18:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like love at first sight to me. He seems pretty taken by you and a little apprehensive. Proceed slowly and share your thought of God bringing you two together with him.
2007-01-21 18:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sharyn 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You met him once, talked a couple more times, and you're ready to marry him???
Here's another message from God for you: Get some therapy - fast!
2007-01-21 18:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you are totally scaring him away cause you are dreaming of marriage instead of seeing reality for what it is.
You've met once, talked a few times and now you want marriage? Any intelligent man would run as fast as he could.
2007-01-21 18:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like u need to follow your heart.God may have very well put u at your meeting. Good luck.
2007-01-21 18:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by lilly l 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋