I told my husband i want to go to the salon to do my hair.
He told me not to go, but i still went because my hair was so damaged..when i return i told him i went to the salon.
He said well u went to the salon without my permission so he said our marriage is over...
I know guys get angry for this but do they leave their wife for something like this..
PLEASE TELL ME GUYS
2007-01-21 10:30:30 · 20 answers · asked by shamela k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a control freak.
Get rid of him.
Good Luck
2007-01-21 10:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a guy but personaly ther had to be other reasons that may have been the las little thing the made him blow his top there has to be more to it than just because you got your hair done. Heres something for you to chew on a lil and think more about the situation someone I know was engaged this guys fiancee got mad when he didnt beat the crap out any guy that looked her way, she got mad when he watched movies like american pie or metallica videos because the girls were pretier which were words from her own mouth not his she got mad when he refused to get rid of pictures of his ex,s 3 yr. twins and even got irratte when he told her to screw herself because she didnt want his step daughter of 14 years to come for visitation anymore. heres my opinion in this situation it wasnt just all that deep inside this person is immature, insecure, and a control freak and when she didnt have what she wanted she cried like a lil baby threw and broke somethings and then moved back in with mommy and daddy for a couple days they are no longer engaged. My advice is to look at the big picture theres got to be more to it the salon thing might have just tipped the iceberg. Good luck and I hope the two of you can fix whatever is wrong.
2007-01-21 18:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by fakeblond475 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could this represent one of those "last straw" things? Maybe the salon issue, which in and of itself sounds so trivial, could have been the final destructive thing in a whole series of accumulating troubles, that tipped your relationship right over the edge. Guys don't typically leave their wives over something like this alone--there's got to be a lot more that's been going on over the months and years for him to have reacted so extremely.
2007-01-21 18:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by clicksqueek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but I've been married to a few (3) and if any one of them kicked me out because I went to the salon, I would have divorced THEM and taken them for all their money to use to go to the salon!! grrrr, men like that make me mad!
2007-01-21 18:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by Sharyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. Are you serious?
What the hell is your husband's problem?!.. Is this about you going out and spending money? Or is this about him trying to establish some sort of control over you?..
This sounds like the beginning stages of a possesive/abusive relationship. Let him go. You're better than that.
2007-01-21 18:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by [we're all mad here] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hum, well it sounds like he is trying to be controling. Maybe it is better that way, espically over something as small as getting your hair done. I don't know why he'd want to end the marriage over something like that. (maybe next time just don't mention the salon, and just go, i do that sometimes if i buy shoes or something and he dosesn't think it is necessary.... they don't notice)
2007-01-21 18:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by Em C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not normal unless there are some financial resrictions thats not something you would normally end a marriage over if anything he should be happy that you are triing to do something with yourself when you need it from experience iv seen women run here checking acount dry on stuff they dont need but if you needed it and it was something small there is NO reason he should have said that at all
2007-01-21 18:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do not leave their wives for something like this. Only pathetic, immature control freaks do, when they are having a tantrum because they didn't get their way.
Consider yourself lucky, you are way better off without this wannabe Hitler in your life.
2007-01-21 18:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow he broke up with you for getting your hair done? He just did you a MAJOR favor, you don't need a controlling guy like that in your life at all!! Move on, he isn't worth it at all!
2007-01-21 18:36:13 · answer #9 · answered by Alisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a control freak. You are an independent person and should be able to do what you want. It's definitely not a healthly relationship if he feels that way.
2007-01-21 18:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by Green thumb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm... you have to have your husbands permission to go to the salon? Thats pretty controlling dont you think.
2007-01-21 18:35:19 · answer #11 · answered by madi c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋