I have been single for about 2 months now. My baby daddy broke up with me in Nov. and three days later he found some one else. They just got a new apartment together, and it seems as though they are in a real serious relationship. Now, I don't know why he broke up with me, but I've been doing very well. I exercise to lose my baby weight, I also stay in school, and I just found a job. He is still there for his daughter all the way(emotionally, physically, somewhat financially) I just met someone at school, and him and I went out on a few dates. I invited him over on friday, and we cuddled and watched a movie. But, after all that, I felt so guilty. No, we didn't have sex, and the first and last person I ever had sex with was my baby daddy. But, I would feel so dirty giving it to someone else. Why do I feel so guilty about hanging out with another guy? I can't even really show him too much interest b/c my baby daddy is still on my mind. I'm trying to move on,but its too hard
2007-01-21 10:26:12 · 6 answers · asked by Stefi13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your problem looks complicated but it is actually simple. Since you say you dont know why he broke up with you, it might just be that you cant get over the fact that he left you for someone else so fast and also might feel that you are getting around too quick considering you are someones mother and all or you might just be having a difficult adjusting to the dating thing again after being with someone for so long. I should be a therapist hahahahaha
2007-01-21 10:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by chromegrill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, it's gonna be alright. This has somewhat happened to me; I was with this guy, and then for some reason (i don't know what) he broke up with me. Obviously, I was in tears for weeks and weeks. On the last day of school, i heard that he got with this girl. (this was about like 2 weeks after). I thought porbably, that the reason why he broke up with me was because he liked this other girl while he was with me. So, i guess what I'm trying to tell you is, that maybe your baby daddy liked a different girl while you guys were together. This might be not true though. But what I'm sure of is this; he isn't worth all this worrying and guiltiness your feeling. No guy who broke your heart or whatever is worth this much pain. So just try to move on, and eventually you'll get over it.
:)
Hope this helps!
2007-01-21 18:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, lets get the facts straight. This man did not meet a woman and decide to live with her three days after your break-up. Its much more likely that these two have been together a bit longer than that, and that relationship is probably at least partly to blame for your break-up. He may also not care for the responsibilties of fatherhood. You feel guilty because he is your childs father, and you still care for him. Concentrate on your baby for now. Other relationships will come when u r ready. No rush!
2007-01-21 18:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by OKI812-maybe69x's 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's face it, sooner or later you will have sex with someone new. I'm not saying it should be within the first three or four dates but it will happen sooner or later, relax, it's time to move on in your life.
2007-01-21 18:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by deno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you schould steal and you feel guilty would you still steal?You.see what more you can do for your baby and yourself. are so lucky,You got a baby .school,job sounds great.so do more and more for yourself and your baby.
2007-01-21 18:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by claus w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let it go and find someone new.
Good Luck
2007-01-21 18:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋