there is this guy at work that had a finacee but recently broke up with her because she cheated on him, he quickly bounced back with some co-workers at work , anyways i have feelings for this guy, but i dont know how to tell him, he is not taken anymore and i am just wondering what are some things get him to notice me more, he knows me , but not well, i want to be freind him more, and then hopefully have a relationship with him, how can i accomplish that?
2007-01-21 10:22:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
i ment fiancee
2007-01-21 10:28:31 · update #1
well first off what is his name and where do you work if you work with him? he might want some time alone or he maybe with someone...it all depends on how his attitude is toward you and whether or nothe is really interested in anyone right now.what i am saying is observe first then when you think he is interested then make your move.....the name is christine by the way nice talking to you.hope i helped in some way.
2007-01-21 10:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by devilwoman19882000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't quickly bounce back with some co-workers, he's on the rebound. Those things don't last. If you're interested in a few dates and then getting dumped then it wouldn't hurt to be interested in him. If you want something lasting, you need to wait for quite a while.
2007-01-21 18:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I'd say...take it easy. If he's just out of a serious relationship he may not be as eager as you to jump into something.
That said, give the two of you a chance to get together socially. Set up an afterwork event with a few other co-wokers and invite him along.
2007-01-21 18:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by fdm215 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a good idea to get involved with someone at work. If it goes bad, it will very awkward to keep working there. Most bosses frown on office romances.
You could ask him if he wants to have a drink or a cup of coffee after work. But it's not wise.
2007-01-21 18:25:00 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never start a relationship with a co-worker. Remain work mates instead.
2007-01-21 18:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try sharing some of the same interest, get a new hair due.....some highlights & a new out fit.....smile a lot & perfume.......Proposely walk past him.....drop stuff in front of him & really sexy like pick it up without making it too obvoius.......Oh & dont forget some lip gloss!
Work it Girl!!!!
2007-01-21 18:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by nealejess401 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up to him and start up a conversation.
Always smile and avoid saying things that start out with, "I don't like......". It makes people feel more comfortable around you if you stick with saying things such as, "I like.....".
Always smell good and act very interested in everything he says.
Compliment him a few times and you'll be on your way.
2007-01-21 18:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite several colleagues (I hate co-worker) out socially, just make sure he is one of them
2007-01-21 18:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
appoarch Him and ask Him out to Lunch a NICE ONE
2007-01-21 18:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by star7money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get involved talk to him more appear interested in what he talks about
2007-01-21 18:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by Evan B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋