Me and my boyfriend have been going out 4 5 months and we are both virgins and i am TOTALLY ready 2 have sex with him. how am i supposed 2 know if he is ready 2 give it up 2 me?
2007-01-21 10:08:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's a dude.... im sure he's ready.... just ask him.... n if he says he aint ready.... w/e he's a good dude... n stick w/ him... cus girl trust me... the longer u wait..... the better ur relationship will turn out..... because u both know u love eachother for being yourselves n not sex...
2007-01-21 10:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by 07Navy_Linnie17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of been ready is been comfortable to have the difficult conversations. If you trust someone enough to want to give your virginity to them, then you should be comfortable to have these difficult conversations. Also make sure you have the protection conversation.
It is a fun and exciting time. Take it slow. Enjoy the excitement of "is he ready". Do remember, once you go that step further you cannot take it back. It changes this relationship and your future relationships
2007-01-21 10:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ang H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are sharing this with the entire world? If you are ready and he is ready, then it will happen--whenever there is a doubt: don't do it.
I really do not see anything wrong with staying virgin and waiting for that special love. You date your boyfriend for only 5 months and fell like you are ready to give it up to him already? How much do you really know about him. Does he truly care about you? Because you know, for young boys like yours this is nothing but a headcount. Just ask my son......
2007-01-21 10:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by What Will The Spill Kill? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I 2 think he was born ready 2 do it 2 u.
2007-01-21 10:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by Rufio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. That really is the only way you'll find out. If hes not ready, then give him time. But if hes like most guys, he'll be ready.
2007-01-21 10:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your under 16, then i would think about it. you didn't say how old you both were. if i was you i would wait just to be sure. a guy will take it when he can. 4or 5 months isn't long enough. he may have sex with you,and dump you later on. but its your choice, do what you feel is right
2007-01-21 10:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice you've been dating out for that long, but what makes you think you're really ready to have sex ??? How old are you ? You have many years in your life to have sex. Just enjoy each other, and keep doing what you're doing. ~~~
2007-01-21 10:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even think about it! You'll be sorry, and the damage you will incur will be irreparable, both physically and psychologically!
You've been warned!
2007-01-21 10:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by love_2b_curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him 2 a private place. start strippin, see what he does. if he reacts he is ready.
2007-01-21 10:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by quez2quan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him or try to get close and talk abot that subject
2007-01-21 10:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by Cynthia C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋