im scared i might scare my jewish girlfriend with my uncut penis. Should i tell her ahead of time that i was never circumsized? We been dating for 3 months and the time has come to do you know what. But the problem is im scared she will hate me for not being cut down there. I though about getting it cut but its very expensive and extremely painful and i cannot have sex with her for atleast a month and i dont think she will that long. Should just make love to her without the circumsion? Its a hard choice.
2007-01-21 09:59:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Hey Steve. Don't get circumcised. Why would you want to mutilate your body for a bit of nookie?
You've already answered your own question by saying that she won't wait that long - so just go for it.....and have fun.
Make sure that you use a condom aswell. Anyway, once you retract the foreskin and pop on a condom, it'll look just the same as a circumcised one.
We have a foreskin for a reason. Guys can lose sensitivity once they are circumcised. My mate got it done and has regretted it ever since and is now trying to regain it through a series of weights and stretching. Very uncomfortable.
Be proud of your body and who you are. I'm sure that your girlfriend is lovely and loves you just as you are.
Have a great time.
2007-01-22 06:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT GET CUT FOR HER.
She is only temperary. Just think about this. She is your girlfriend not your wife. If you where to get married to her, then fine if it make her happy. But this relationship may not be "Happy Ever After" for you. It's the same idea of getting a Tattoo of her name on your chest. ".......Love Always". How do you explain it to future girlfriends?
If she loves you, then your body should not matter. If she cares more for your uncircumsized penis, than your relationship, then let her go. You do not want that type of relationship.
Sorry I am not trying to jinx you, but good luck.
2007-01-21 18:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by Zeke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you two really care for one another, this is a non-issue. Jewish or not, you're likely to be a girl's first encounter with an uncut penis in this country anyway. personally, I wouldn't cut off a piece of my body for anyone. good luck!
2007-01-21 19:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by victat0r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your clean, who cares?
Seriously, she knows your not Jewish, so she shouldn't expect you to be cut, being a Gentile. To expect a gentile to be cut is unrealistic on her part! Get with the times. Now, if your "getting married," then that's different. Then you HAVE to talk about faith, since according to Jewish law, if the Mother is a Jew, the Children are Jewish. So, that's down the road tho', at least I guess.
2007-01-21 18:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Circumcision is a sign of the covenant with G-d. It's a religious thing, not a sexual one. The appropriate time to have it done, if you ever do, is if you convert.
Speak with her beforehand, so you both feel comfortable. If she's non-Orthodox enough to be dating a non-Jew, she probably can cope with a foreskin.
I've been good friends with a few myself.
2007-01-21 18:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by The angels have the phone box. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Far from being reluctant to drop your pants, you should regard this as the ultimate opportunity to determine whether this is someone you want to spend your time with. If she regards a normal part of your anatomy which is shared by most of the world's men as something to recoil from, drop her like a sack of bricks.
2007-01-23 02:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by n n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jewish or not, it's a shock to see one for the first time. If she digs you it won't matter to her, it's you she cares about. Warning her about it just makes it a freak show, she'll expect to see something shocking and you'll make it an uncomfortable situation for both of you. Just be you!
2007-01-21 18:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by fuzzbutt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this isn't a troll ...
Just tell her ahead of time so you can talk about it and she won't be surprised. That way you won't deflate when she seems put off by your anatomy.
She's probably intelligent and won't care. She might even be just plain curious about sex with an uncut penis.
2007-01-21 18:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
umm...tell her...i don't know alot about the religion but if it is that big of a deal tell her. Your not Jewish and there was no need for you to get it done.
tell her before anything, if your ready it should be no problem.
2007-01-21 18:07:05 · answer #9 · answered by nicky1119 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if she really loves you, she shouldnt care that you are uncircumsized. however, when you are circumsized, the orgasm is alot better
2007-01-21 18:05:32 · answer #10 · answered by Thomasroberts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋