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i like this girl. but i think she likes me back but the problem is that she has a boyfriend. one time she told me she was going to the movies and if she did go if i wanted to go. then she asked me if i can cheer her up because she had a arguement with her boyfriend wanted me 2 cheer her up. she said that i'm one of the very few people that she trusts. one day i asked her if she wanted me to pick her up from school and she said yeah. her friend told me that her boyfriend was a little mad and that she was really sad because she wanted to see me and didn't want 2 disappoint me then her friend told me that she was happy when she saw me. i asked her friend what kinds of qualities does she like in a boy and she told me he has 2 make her go awww, has 2 have a good sense of humor, and be a sweetheart. i've acted like that with her and she is always laughing when i say something and is always saying awww when i say something sweet. i like this girl and care for her a lot . what should i do ??

2007-01-21 09:47:46 · 3 answers · asked by EJ 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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You need to be straight with her - tell her you like her. Force her to do something about the situation. If she likes you too then she can't be happy with him, but she might be too scared to sort it out. You need to nudge her. Don't be the other guy, don't let her cheat - if she wants anything to happen, she has to finish with him first. This is why you need to address the situation. If she doesn't genuinely like you then she's playing you and that's really mean. But there's only one way to find out... talk to her.

2007-01-21 10:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by amazingtessa 2 · 0 0

Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

2007-01-22 18:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0 0

definitely do not let this girl's friend be your source of information or let her influence the actions you take.
you should definitely be honest with the girl you like. the next time she asks you to go to a movie with her or something similar, ask her what she expects from her relationship with you. is she looking for another boy to help her interpret her own boyfriend? or is she looking for a romantic relationship with you?
you need to get information directly from this girl and then go from there.

2007-01-21 09:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by bananaknit 1 · 0 0

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