there is this boy at skool that i like but ive already asked him so many times to b with me or if he likes me but he said no. what should i do
2007-01-21 09:18:31 · 16 answers · asked by brunettebabi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave him be
2007-01-21 09:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop asking him. If you keep on asking him the pressure will just keep building up on top of him. Just be friends with him. Build a foundation if there ever will be a future relationship. If he says stuff like you're nice, or talks to you alot more you can ask him.
2007-01-21 17:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by eli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this has happened to me....i think that you should just try to become frends with him...tell him you understand that he just wants to b frends....this guy i like told me that he liked me, just didnt want a grl frend....i told him that i understood, and i wanted to b frends too...now we talk all the time and we are closer than ever...the other day i asked him to Colors's Day (kind of a get together at our school) he said he would go but on that day he was leaving to go to oklahoma....it sucked, but i said oh well...the same day i asked him out. He told me that he would think about it over the weekend and tell me on monday, so i guess that i will find out. But the point is is that just b frends for now and keep tlkn to him.....he might actually b the one that asks you out in a couple of weeks....Hope that helps!
2007-01-21 17:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by Christina. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no means no...sorry i know it sucks but sometimes you have to move and deal with rejection because it happens to everyone some way or another....i would leave him alone though and just make sure he knows what hes missing out on by flaunting around how hot you can be in front of him......but i would definatly leave him alone about what he thinks of you or if he'
ll be with you or he might start to think you're crazy....good luck and just remember there are plenty fish in the sea!!
2007-01-21 17:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by ..cHeRi.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love? Sounds more like a "crush" - Dude's made it clear he is not interested - is he the only male in your school up for grabs? I'm sure there is someone else out there that you could find interest in... give up on this one - you are totally wasting your time.
2007-01-21 17:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit asking him, if he keeps saying no. He is not interested right now. So, quit asking and find somebody else to go out with for a while. If he sees that you aren't in to him anymore, maybe he'll miss you and ask you out.
2007-01-21 17:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by Deborah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate when that happens. Look there are so many guys out there :] It'll be hard, but you have to try to forget him and move on.
Don't go so low as to ask him out another few times. You have to be strongg :]
2007-01-21 17:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a boy who says yes.
2007-01-21 17:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs, space. If he says no, leave him alone, that's it. But maybe, if you leave him alone he'll start to wonder why you're not asking him out or anything. And he might start to like you good lcuk :)
2007-01-21 17:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him! I went through the same thing last year. Dont put all your eggs in one basket
2007-01-21 17:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by Trevor D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lost him when you ask him if he like you .....
But you need to trust by you're self and do like what i say ...
When you in you're room close it and looking for the mirror
And say That to you're self ...
I SO BEUTIFUL ..
I NICE GIRL .
I THE BEST GIRL IN MY SCHOOL .
EVERY BODY LIKE ME .
I DON'T CARE ABOUT EVERY BODY .
I CLEVER GIRL .
Do that and you will thank me when you see the result ....
2007-01-21 17:26:04 · answer #11 · answered by Rasmah.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋