how am i being cold ?

Question

i rarely say i love you to my fiance becuse in my opion saying i love you is supposed to be rare. if you go around saying i love you all the time it kinda loses its meaning.
my gf gets mad alot cuz i almost never say it.
why should i have to say it so much ?
and alot of ties my gf says im a cold jerk.

Answer 1

Ah, she just wants to hear it everyonce in awhile. She would like to know that the love hasn't died out before you even tied the friggin knot. Just do it to entertain her. If you love her then you should love her enough to let her hear it every once in awhile. Do the hit and run I love you's, at least, when she least expects it. You don't have to say it every day all day because then she probably wouldn't believe you.

Answer 2

If she needs you to say "I love you" and you don't like to say "I love you" then you two could potentially have a problem.....She needs to realize that you show your love in other ways, other than words, and you need to realize, she needs to hear those words to feel special. That is what marriage is all about. And, if you are not willing to do this for her, since this is supposed to be the woman who you love, care for and cherish for eternity, then maybe marriage isnt the best option for you two.

Answer 3

i understand what you're saying...if you show someone that you love them, then saying it is just an added bonus and should not be taken lightly. HOWEVER, women can be weird creatures sometimes (i know, understatement of the year!!). we kinda need to hear it more often when the relationship is in fiance status.

Answer 4

i make it a point to tell the people in my life that i love, i love you everyday because you never know what could happen that might be the last chance you get to say it