Can't figure out what is wrong with me?
I have relationships, they end; but never for a "reason". I've asked the guys (even years later) what was wrong with me....and I hear "nothing" "you were great" "you're going to make someone a great wife someday" etc. OK, obviously the men didn't think this or it wouldn't have ended, right? So, what is it?!?!
2007-01-21 08:57:13 · 25 answers · asked by Staying Quiet 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
While I agree they could be a lot more up front with you. Howvere They could be right about saying there is nothing wrong you. A better question is the first one why did the relationship end. Don't take it on like it was all your fault. Somethimes people dont go together as much as they might like to things don't fit. Some people make Great friends but when they get in relationship its not the same, and thats not on any particular person. There are some woemn I can think of that would in fact make BEAUTIFUL mothers, wives, etc but a wife being good is relative to the man sheis with. If you get the Donna Reed supermom and homemaker, she would be a great wife but not to say Marilyn Manson. So they may very well be right. Its better to put energy into perfecting who you are, and find a man that needs that in his life. Don't wastertime regretting not being what you where never meant to be. If you could just be with anybody then being with your husband when he comes along wouldn't be as special.
2007-01-21 09:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by theblessedknower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 22:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by Lawrence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A number of things could have caused the break ups. It could have been that they weren't physically attracted to you or they just didn't have a connection with you. In order to be in a long term relationship, I think there has to be chemistry. If they thought that you would make a great wife someday they wouldn't have ended it with you. Unless they're not looking for marriage. So, either they're not looking for marriage, or they just didn't connect with you. I have a friend who has been in countless relationships, and none of them have lasted over a year. I've asked her what happened, but she never knows why. I hope you figure it out. =)
2007-01-21 09:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by Virginia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My last relationship ended because I found out that my ex (okay this could take awhile) A) Was cheating on me with everything that moved such as a 13 year old, a 15 year old, and a 17 year old (the 17 year old was the girlfriend of one of my good friends he's 20 btw or was at that time rather). B) He was physically and mentally abusive and had me convinced that I couldn't survive without him, that everyone thought I was ugly, and that I'd never find anyone that loved me as much as he did. and C) I found someone better, sweeter, and far better endowed and better in bed and I fell in love with him, married him, and had his baby.
2016-05-24 08:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with u. Sometimes we enter relationships immaturely. The guys u date are probaly not looking for a committed relationship, and get scared and run. Maybe its best for u, because you do not want to waste your time on a loser. When that special someone comes along u will know it. There is a big difference between love and lust, and when that special man finds you you'll know the difference.
2007-01-21 09:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by lovelyearthtone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what your problem is, you are probably an old fat $lut who thinks that dwelling on the past about your old boyfriends will make your current one think "Oh look at those sexy tonsils of her's that won't ever stop jiggling." Well you are wrong. Get some self assurance you bit**!! Play hard to get and soon, people would be fighting to pull down those thongs that you are going to start wearing! You will be good in no time!
2007-01-21 09:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be, basan, that you are choosing the wrong guys to get hooked up with. It has been my experience, that guys are pretty honest about this kind of thing. Especially when time has passed and they have no reason to lie. If you have one that is particularly close still, ask him to fix you up with someone more to your personality. Also one thing to look at is, do you get too close too fast? Do you fall in love too easily? Do you confuse love with physical attraction? These things all factor in to answer your question. Best thing to do is be honest with yourself, don't give too much too soon, and NEVER say I love you first. Even if you do...at least you save face. Good luck and protect your heart. Nana
2007-01-21 09:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself! WIFE - the guys you choose are NOT wanting a WIFE! BIG difference between a girlfriend and a WIFE! Don't know what it is you do for them to say this, maybe you could ASK how you give off this impression?
2007-01-21 09:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they weren't looking to have a "wife" at the time. Guys DO get a choice in the relationships as well as women.
2007-01-21 09:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They end because you don't like yourself. You asked, "what's wrong with me?"
Or they end because you're not picking the right guy for you.
Why don't you learn MORE about yourself and your needs? Take some time for you. Then you can figure out what type of guy works for you.
Good luck.
2007-01-21 09:02:36 · answer #10 · answered by jacq 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋