My boyfriend always tickles me! it cute the first couple of times, but after the 20th time in one day... i tell him to stop cuz its just annoying! y does he do this, and am i suposed to think its cute? cuz its def a big turn off, especially after i say stop!
2007-01-21 08:51:27 · 21 answers · asked by Kiery 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, many men and women find tickling a turn on. If that looks like it might be the case (only you can tell) then perhaps he has tickle fetish (tickling turns him on). 20 times in one day is quite a bit, so I think this is probably going in that direction.
I'd just go right out and ask him. For a person who loves tickling, being asked not to or even going so far as prohibition it can really hurt. I'd recommend talking to him about it and asking him to tickle less frequently, but let him get a good tickle in if he really likes that. Knowing you're okay with it under certain conditions you put in place, would probably be a relief for him.
If it really is a turn on then you have a great switch to turn him on whenever you want to. I know of many cases that for the non-ticklephile, over time tickling can be a great turn on also.
I have a tickle fetish and I had a lot of trouble coping with it when I was younger. Especially when there wasn't Internet and you thought you were alone. I'm a normal guy with wife and family and I enjoy tickling probably as much as your boyfriend probably does.
Why does it exist? I have no idea. But it is totally workable. It's totally up to you. You must decide how far he can go.
Maybe it's too much information. I just wanted to show another possible angle.
Good luck.
2007-01-22 08:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by Gorgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, we dont ALL tickle our girlfriends, thats a BIT of a generalisation. But if u dont like it tell him to pi$$ off! Tell him you dont think its cute and if you do it again you wont give him sex ever again (ha, that'll def make him stop!)
2007-01-21 08:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by KaZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha.we just like to see you squirm and giggle. hey if this bothers you just tell your bf what you said in this question. if he doesn't get the hint question his love for you. or if you want a funnier way hit him in the balls every time he tickles you that will make him stop
2007-01-21 08:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good thing to hear you laugh it's also a turn on it's just another way of being affectionate
2016-04-04 05:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we do it cuz we like to touch our loved ones. Just tell him he has like 5 tickles a day and if he goes over, you'll be pissed.
2007-01-21 08:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by Timothy S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually its a type of flirting, and sometimes when girls say stop they really dont mean it. so i would suggest telling him something like "umm..when you tickle me, i really mean stop when i say stop, cuz i dont like it"
so yeah....mostly its just flirting, i wouldnt make a big deal out of it, just talk to him!
2007-01-21 08:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jewls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you
2014-09-06 07:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I jsut like to see someone else laugh. I personally never ticked a girl like that. But now you mention it, I might give it a shot.
2016-05-24 08:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they do it just to hear us squeal. I would learn how to snort or to sneeze mucus out the next time he does it. Then hopefully he'll get the point.
2007-01-21 08:57:06 · answer #9 · answered by Nique T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes your laugh? It's cute if you can tickle your girlfriend but, too much is too much.
2007-01-21 08:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by matthaumschild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋