A lot of times when you tell an overweight women that you perfer toned, thin, or women of average weight they become so insulted. I hear a lot of comments from them like "why would you want a bony girl when you can have a curvacious girl with meat on her bones" or "what are you a child molester going after girls with no **** or *** that are built like little boys?". I'm not saying that men should hate or insult overweight women but honestly its just not as attractive to most men. Like most women want a man bigger then them, most men want women that are smaller then them. I just hate seeing these women wear clothes way to small for them and then get defensive when you don't find them attractive.
2007-01-21 08:44:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
They just want to feel better about themselves because they'd rather not accept that it's their fault no one likes them. Although, i don't see how some of those super skinny girls are attractive either. They do look like little boys.
2007-01-21 08:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
All women, regardless of their size, can be sexy. Sexy is an attitude more than a look or a size. I am a large-sized woman, and I do agree with you that large women should wear clothes that fit them correctly, but that goes for women of all sizes. No one should squeeze themselves into inappropriately fitting clothes. I do understand that you do not prefer large women, but it really is not a fair statement to say that MOST men do not find large women attractive. It really seems to be a cultural/racial preference. I also noticed this in my travels to other countries. My husband is black (I am white), and most of the black men he knows prefer larger women.
2007-01-21 14:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by MeMe 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What planet did you grow up on?
There is an old saying out there, that if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all. Do YOU have a clue as to what that means?
Why would you tell a woman what you prefer? All they are doing is giving you a compliment and you have the nerve to put them down! You should be ashamed, but I can tell by what you wrote that you think you right by what you're saying. You think you have an obligation to put down somebody.
Well, guess what? You don't have the character that would attract a beautiful woman, because no beautiful woman would want to be seen with you.
You are an embarrassment to real men.
2007-01-21 09:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Hoolia 4 · 10⤊ 1⤋
Um, I think they must just want attention and be accepted. Maybe some guys like it. Like, I think I wouldn't like it if someone called me a "Bag of bones", just because I'm thin. Know what I mean? And, no matter what size you are, just wear the right size. If you think you are too thin, don't wear a size 6 to "bulk you up". Same goes the other way around. Interesting question though. And you stated it nicely. I'm sure a lot of other guys could have said it really meanly. *smile*
2007-01-21 09:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by volleyball girl 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First of all, have you ever thought about the fact that a lot of overweight women are confident and love themselves? They are happy with who they are, what they look like, and aren't scared to show it. Now, I agree, a lot of overweight people wear clothes that they really shouldn't be, but so do all other sizes. I hope you arent being rude to overweight women telling them what you like is opposite of what they are cause that would make you totally shallow. (not that u are, just trying to make a point). But see, that is one reason they can get offended if you tell them you prefer toned, thin women cause you are basically telling them they're not good enough and ugly. I'd be offended too if i were them. I am very thin and I have had guys tell me they dont like skinny women..so see it goes both ways. I'm glad i'm married now, he loves me no matter what size i am. Good luck with your answers.
2007-01-21 16:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by teddybear_6740128 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Have you ever heard of a Plus Size Model? Well they are out there. Mia Tyler (Steven Tyler's other Daughter) is one. I admire plus size woman who are models. I am a plus size woman who is happy with how she looks. Why do Men make a Huge Deal about any woman over the size of 14?
From askmen.com
Mia proves that, with the right attitude, a celebrity upbringing can be survived. Where a lesser woman might have been content mooching off her famous father, Mia was determined to establish her independence. And she has done so as a model in an industry hostile to her heavier physique -- proving that big can indeed be beautiful.
2007-01-21 15:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by ♥skiperdee1979♥ 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
its a matter of working with what you got... im shorter than normal 5' 6'' so i got in shape, and theres nothing wrong whay not try and sell what youu got if your too lazy to do nething about itand its a preference i like my girls to be in shape no like muuscle bound necicarilly but no to over weight either... but all my gfs have been shorter than me and how would they look 80 lbs over weight?... its not shallow its a preference...
2007-01-25 02:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by Tig 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, some women are overweight and still want to have a love life- so they get really offended when men make fun of them...you don't have to kiss them, just be nice...remember, we are all people! it matters what's on the inside and your heart, not the outside~
2007-01-21 08:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by minney mouse! 3 · 9⤊ 1⤋
MAYBE they would want someone to like them for the PERSON they are and not just judge them on the outside packaging.
Big women fall in love, too.
2007-01-21 08:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by nowyouknow 7 · 7⤊ 3⤋
a story of "the fox and the sour grapes" except where you are made to believe that you are the fox...LOL
-vj
2007-01-21 11:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by voodoo_6600 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋