me and my babyfather got into an argument lastnight about why were not together, I asked him why he told me on new years day that we were together , and he said he don't like thinking negative so I said why you lie to me? he said because it's not going to work out , how can i get my love back? we been apart for a year and we were together for an year,Help!!!
2007-01-21 08:31:11 · 8 answers · asked by twiggy_vienna_love 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and I have a daughter not a son, and he already knows I love him
2007-01-21 08:45:16 · update #1
You might have pushed him away.
Talking is the only way to fix anything.
Good Luck
2007-01-21 08:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need, first and foremost, to think about your son. If things are not working out with the child's father, then make sure the father at least pays support and has a good relationship with the child. Otherwise, all the arguments, begging, nagging crying and fighting will get you nowhere. When someone does not want to be with you it's difficult, but there is nothing you can do. Work on building a friendship with him and try to move on with your life.
2007-01-21 16:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A couple of things you should do here:
1. Move on and build a future for yourself and your child without this pathetic loser.
2. Learn a valuable lesson: that allowing yourself to get knocked up by someone you barely know rarely turns into the "white picket fence" sort of scenario.
2007-01-21 16:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have the communication intact and talk to him directly! thats the best i've known! try and convinced him!be patient!
2007-01-21 16:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by sweetlover 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay I think that if you love him love him.If not get a new man.
2007-01-21 16:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by star 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is tell em how you felt when he lied to you on new yrs and tell em how much you love himm and want to be with him
2007-01-21 16:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find someone else that can make up their mind. unfortunately he will always be this way. stop waisting your time
2007-01-21 16:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
best to move on ok
2007-01-21 16:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by ringer6942 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋