U liked a girl and u knew that she would never like u bac?. WOuld u sacrifice ur friendship wit her to move on? knowin that u 2 are really good friends?.
2007-01-21 08:19:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A question from a high school senior.
2007-01-21 08:20:08 · update #1
How do you KNOW that she would never like you in the same way as you like her?
If it's come up before between the two of you and she told you that she doesnt feel the same as you...then it's time for you to shift your focus onto a different girl.
BUT, if you two have never talked about this before, then you really don't KNOW if she would feel the same or not until you do talk to her about it.
2007-01-21 08:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by heidi6971 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to sacrifice your friendship just to move on. Eventually you will get over her anyway so you may as well stay friends in the process and just wait for someone to come along and sweep you off your feet. If she doesn't like you that's not your problem and I really wouldn't risk a friendship over a crush. Plenty of people fall for people that they are really good friends with. It's just like that saying : A guy and a girl can be just friends but at one point or another they will fall for each other, maybe at the wrong time, maybe at different times, or maybe forever. You can't let it bother you that she doesn't feel the same way. Just move on and let everything take it's course. Good luck.
2007-01-21 16:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mystic-scorpio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know for a fact that she doesn't like you as a b/f, then you need to move on. If she's a good friend than there's no reason why she should have a problem seeing you with somebody else. Friends are there to support you, help you and be happy when you're happy. If you havn't talked to her about how you feel about her yet, you need to let her know b/c you never know if she likes you too. Most girls hide how they feel so make sure you talk to her. Good luck!
2007-01-21 16:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mary Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the friendship feelings change quickly why lose a good friend when you both mature a little more you may find she feels differently in the inbetween time get on with your life and other gals
2007-01-21 16:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by shannara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not allowed to date :( But if I was allowed to date....I would try to make it work between you guys and see how it goes, but if it gets too weird or strange, just break it off and say if y'all can still be friends so it wouldnt ruin ur friendship.
2007-01-21 16:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by Vinnie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T sacrifice your friendship until you are positive she likes you back. Friendship is fragile. Don'y give it up just yet.
2007-01-21 16:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by eli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would just ask her out and if she says Yes then you are good but if she says no just tell her that you don't want this to effect your friendship you just wanted to get that question out there.
2007-01-21 16:26:55 · answer #7 · answered by mesa_geek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure! go for it and if you are really good friends than you aren't really sacrificing anything, because you know that if things don't go right, you'll still be good friends after wards.
2007-01-21 16:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just stay friends with her, hey you never know she may change her mind and go out with you...
2007-01-21 16:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by anita_06_05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure why you would have to sacrifice the friendship?
2007-01-21 16:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by gluckstadt_randy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋