Well basically sadly I'm still getting over my first girlfriend which I broke up with in July only went out only for 2 weeks, and to be honest I still love her, it's hurts still
Is this normal? and what do I do? Finding someone else is so hard...
Is it normal to be getting over her for that long as well?
2007-01-21 08:14:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont worry, i think its completely normal. after my first dumped me after about 3mnths i didn't stop thinking about her for ages and i still do now almost 2 yrs l8r. don't worry m8. theres sum1 out ther 4 evri1 and it just takes time. you can't rush love, it has to be spontaneous. good luck for the future my friend. your time will come
2007-01-21 08:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by eddybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After two weeks it is certainly not love!
I apologise for the patronising answers because you are clearly very young but irrespective of that you are hurting!
You need to go out with your mates and have some fun, another girl will come along when the time is right - don't rush it.
The first romantic encounter always stays with us no matter how good or bad!
2007-01-21 08:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by Poppy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long is always up to you. You should however note that thinking about this one girl stops you from meeting other girls that might take her place in your affections. Two weeks knowing someone is not really a reason for you to have mourned the loss of that relationship for over half a year. Time to move on.
2007-01-21 08:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
considering how briefly you went out, it is a long time to be getting over her, but then she was your first, so the emotions and feelings involved are very strong. You need to just get out there and enjoy yourself. In time another girl will come along that you begin to get an interest in. Dont obscess about your last gf.
2007-01-21 08:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by wally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First loves are just so paniful and horrible to get over. July was a long time ago though. Maybe you should try and move on and not 'bulid her up' to be this great person in your mind that she prob wasn't in reality.
2007-01-21 08:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by Abby B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ithink it's kind of normal I don't understand how u love her people feel different ways it's also hard for me to find a man but only time will help me
2007-01-21 08:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by shy_town 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you still be getting over someone you went out with for two weeks? You never really knew her. Find yourself someone else and move on.
2007-01-21 08:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by whitney 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mate, this is not normal.You where only out with her for two weeks. Thats nothing to get your head down about.Plus you must be young so your suffering from infactuation.Theres plenty more fish in the sea.
2007-01-21 08:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by medic_man 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i gotta say, from a girls point of view, your first is the worst when you break up! honestly, but you get over it easilier than u may think ! trust! xx
2007-01-21 08:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by baby phat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe for tis long after two years but two weeks, grow up and move on, trust me, it feels great!
2007-01-21 08:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by cookie 85 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋