2007-01-21 08:05:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk and work it out
2007-01-21 08:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, thats not a one sided coin. Rather than saying, "Sit down. Talk about it" blah, blah.
Think about on the things you guys MOST fight about. Start there and see if you can reach an understanding or a way to not let those things happen.
Aim for the top 3 reasons for your fight and work your way down. Don't cover them all. Sometime, have a few fights can be a good thing.
2007-01-21 08:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by Binu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him so much or do you love the drama that you two create with all the fighting? I'd say if you can't get along then you can't be together. I've been with my husband for 15 years and we rarely fight. If you two can't sit down and have a rational conversation without ending in a fight, then it's time to walk away. If neither one of you is willing to close your mouth, open your ears and listen rationally, then it's doomed.
2007-01-21 08:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by chnchita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he says something that you don't agree with or that you just don't like, try talking to him about it calmly and let him know how you feel. Think about what you're saying before you start yelling or cursing at him. If he tries to start a fight with you just walk away from it and tell him you'll be waiting to talk when he calms down. There's really no point in fighting. It never resolves the problem it just generally makes it bigger. If you really love this guy and he really loves you then you'll see how silly it all really is.
2007-01-21 08:10:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mary Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick a time to sit down and talk. 15 mins where he says nothing and listens to you and then he has 15 mins where he talks and you do nothing but listen. Take notes if you need to. Then when you are done, get up and leave it at the table. It gives you 24 hrs to think about what has been said. The next night you can comment on what he/she said. If you need to. Gives you a new perspective on what is being said. You both learn to listen and not yell. Good luck getting him to do this.
2007-01-21 08:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by ~Carolina Beach Girl~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to figure out the root of the fighting. Once you get that on the surface, you have a chance to end the fighting. Good luck.
2007-01-21 08:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whast r u fighting over? If it's stupid 1 of u need 2 just shut up! If u got real issue's then 1 of u has 2 determend what's importart! ego or real life!
2007-01-21 08:51:55 · answer #7 · answered by sitting_in_th3_cut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a 5 to 10 mins timeout or whatever length to cool down and look at the arguments- then come back with cool heads and discuss about it
my ex and i went through this in front of the kids- berated me
not good
2007-01-21 08:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by manblind1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Timeout!
2007-01-21 08:07:53 · answer #9 · answered by SuzyQ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop picking on the little tiny flaws in each other
2007-01-21 08:18:49 · answer #10 · answered by no name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋