Ok, there is this guy at school, i really like him...ALOT! We have been really good friends since kindergarten and we talk like all the time, if we are somewhere, like a basketball game, we usually talk there too. I am not for sure but i think he likes me, i have heard from a few people that he does, and he always looks at me or anything like that. But here is the thing, i have already asked him out, he said maybe but never gave me a real answer. He is afraid to lose me as a friend if we were to go out. But he also sorta likes another girl....my luck. I am sooooooo confused on what to do! Please help, should i ask him? does he even like me??
2007-01-21 07:48:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you've already asked him out and he was kinda distant about it. He doesn't wanna ruin the friendship that you guys have. Which is pretty noble of him. Don't ruin it by going out w/him. I know it must be pretty tough when he's liking other girls, but hang in there. Don't rush it. But when it comes time for a relationship to gell between the 2 of you, let him make the move. He likes you, but more like a friend. Just give it time.
2007-01-21 08:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't chase him because it could make your friendship weird and awkward. Just flirt with him so he knows that you like him and see if he flirts back. If he does good sign, If he doesn't it could mean he just wants you as a friend. Don't get upset though, down the road he could change his mind and as long as you guys are friends you have a shot, if you still like him of course.
2007-01-21 15:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by holtindyfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy is afraid of commitment- if you do end up dating, keep and eagle eye on who's he's hanging out with... seems like the cheating type.
2007-01-21 15:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him. Also, if a guy likes a friend, he usually does not worry about losing that friend if they did go out.
2007-01-21 15:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by l3afymoon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would get one of his friends to find out what is going on and if he doesnt want u as a gf, it might be because he doesnt wanna lose u as a friend
2007-01-21 15:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by luhb u much!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait,give him sometime to think about it because he may be confused about what he should do too. He maybe afraid about what to do.
2007-01-21 15:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him out again and try to convince him why he should go out with you.
2007-01-21 15:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by The Chemical 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a friend to ask him for you so you'll get a better idea
2007-01-21 15:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by Kurt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him.
Good luck
2007-01-21 15:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wanna know - ask him : yes or no. No maybes allowed
2007-01-21 15:52:58 · answer #10 · answered by kizdrop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋