Ok, so here's what happened - I was going out with this guy for about 1 and 1/2 years, and in that time I made friends with his friends. So, when he moved to Melbourne and we broke up, I kept hanging out with his friends. Anyway, I was at the movies with two of his friends, and one of them went to see if there were better seats anywhere. And then...the other guy leaned over and kissed me. I pulled away and didn't talk to him for the rest of the day.
So, a few days ago I saw him again. We sat down and started talking, and he said "I didn't mean to kiss you." And I've said "How do you not mean to kiss somone Jake???" So then he went on to say that he'd liked me since Dan and I started going out...and I just walked off.
So my question is - - - what do I do now? Should I tell Dan? Should I ignore Jake? Please, I need some help!!!
2007-01-21 07:20:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is your choice how you handle this. You really don't need to tel you ex since he is your ex. you need to tell Jake that your not interested in him if that is the case. There are certain relationship etiquette rules that must be followed and it is clear that "Jake" has broken them. you don't go after your friends girl. it is just wrong and it is grounds for ending the friendship between your ex and jake. Ignore jake if you want to keep the friend ship.
2007-01-21 07:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by Candy H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save some unneccessary emotions...don't tell Dan and ignore Jake for now. If something else comes up, then I would re-evaluate what to do then.
2007-01-21 15:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sherry A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell dan that you will always have feelings for him but u dont ever know if its going to work out
and dont ignore jake if its something that u think could be a good oppertunity
2007-01-21 15:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by SPORTSARELiFE <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ignore Jake.You might actually have a good realtionship with him. My bf liked me since 6th grade so I gave him a chance and we're happy together.So give him a chance.You never know what the future holds.
2007-01-21 15:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the guy and tell him how you feel about the liss.
Good Luck
2007-01-21 15:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just take a break right now since it sounds like u have too much to worry about. good luck
2007-01-21 15:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOW WHY IN THE WORLD YOU MUST TELL YOUR EX ABOUT THIS? JUST DO WHAT YOU FEEL LIKE...IF YOU LIKE THE GUY WHO KISSED YOU JUST GO FOR IT OTHERWISE LEAVE YOUR EX AWAY FROM THIS MATTER
2007-01-21 15:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by lonely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you guys broke up didn't you.... its not his business anymore.. if you like him go with it..
2007-01-21 15:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋