My sister is an ungratfull sister she lived in my house for free she is 21 and has a job but never gave me money for rent groceries nothing! and to make matters worst she would bring her friends to drink and they would stay for days!
I had to kick her out my mom knows I did right, the problem is that now I miss her and I hate being mad at her, I been thinking about calling her but doing so is going to make her feel like she didn't do anything right and make me look like I am apologizing for kicking her out ( i am not guilty for kicking her out she deserved it) Anyways I can't be mad at her I want to see her but I don't think she does she hasn't even call me or nothing WTF!
2007-01-21 07:14:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well you can be mad but still miss her.... call her and talk to her... doesn't mean you have to have her move back in..
2007-01-21 07:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has it been since youve seen your sister? Dont let it go to long she may end up holding a grudge for life. On the other hand u did the right thing in kicking her out. Try writing her a letter tell her u still love her and want her to be a part of her life but dont let her live with u again.
2007-01-21 13:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. She is the one that has to apologise. You feel bad because you love her, and cares about her. Don't call her now, just wait a few days, ask her how is she doing and explain to her that in the future she has to give a hand with the home expenses, considerate you and respect you. It's OK to bring friends over, but in her own house, not yours. You had to kick her out, but it doesn't mean that you don't love her any more.
I'm proud of you, she doesn't know the great sister she's loosing!
2007-01-21 07:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by ednita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't miss her. I would be happy if I could kick both my sisters out of the house [if u read my question]
2007-01-21 09:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by Vinnie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a call, say that you're sorry and you overreact. I have 2 sisters bigger then me, when I was younger we fight all the time, now we are very close.
2007-01-21 07:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by LynX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said that your sister is an ungrateful one,then why feel sorry for her after what she did.she lived with you for free?who fault was that if i may ask.either way it should have been a given that she should have given you money and or help you while she was there.
2007-01-21 07:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and tell her your sorry and that u love her and miss her
2007-01-21 07:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by iloveyou 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋