explain thisss?

Question

so i went on this cruise, and met this guy. he was really nice and we hung out a lot, but i never really had an interest in him, until the 4th night. that night we just hung out me and him the entire night laying down and talking. he was really sweet, and i knew that i'd prob start liking him. we were talking about everything, and the topic of me being a virgin came up. i told him i was a virgin, and he didn't believe me. he wasn't a virgin, but he told me i should really wait for someone i like, and then he said "and it's not going to be me." by the end of the night we ended up making out, and he slept over my room, and he even asked me if the next night we were gonna hang out. the next night he was in the casino, so my friend went to go get him from the casino to hang out. sure enough, he wanted to and came within 10 minutes(meanwhile he had been winning a lot of money), and he came to hang out. we went to his room, and we were hooking up and everything led to sex happening naturally, he didn't ask me flat out, and it happened the way i wanted it to, in the moment. when he was putting the condom on however, i asked him what he was doing, and he said "nothing"..i made sure he had a condom on, and he was really gentle, but he didn't talk much. at one point i asked him if he still had the condom on, and he let me feel to make sure it was still on. after we had sex, we went to the casino, and then i left to go to my room to lay down. he said he'd come back to hang out, but i didn't expect him to really. sure enough, he came knocking on my door to spend the night. the next night he had been looking for me, and he thought i was with another guy,so he got upset, and didn't hang out with me for two nights. by the 8th night we met up eventually..and i explained to him that i wasn't with another guy, and we ended up hanging out the whole entire night, me, my friend, and him. he kept saying how i was his girlfriend on the cruise, and that i would be his girlfriend if we lived in the same place. it just so happened i was going to college where he lived in about a year, and he knew that. that night we were hooking up again, and everything led to sex, and this time was even better. he said to me "you said you were a virgin right"..so i said "you remember what happened the other night right?"..and he was like "yeah, we had sex"..so i guess he was asking to be reassured that i was a virgin before him? then we were doing it for a long time, and he was talking a lot more, and physically helping me out, and he constantly asked me if i was alright, and that i need to tell him when to stop or when it hurts. i was in a lot of pain, so he suggested taking the condom off to see if it felt any better, it felt a lot better and it was only for 2 seconds, but he did say to me "the only thing is..if we take the condom off you might have to give me head"..well..i didn't end up giving him head, because i didn't want to. that night he slept over again, and we had plans to hang out the whole entire day the next day. the last night, we hung out the whole night..and then he kissed me on the lips goodbye. we exchanged myspaces and aim screen names, and after the cruise he commented me right away. we had talked back and forth for awhile..and at one point i thought he was avoiding me..so i wrote him a letter saying if you don't write back then i know you don't want anything to do with me, but he did write back, so that showed me that he cared. i ended up surprising him and visiting him one day, and he was really happy to see me. he told me i need to call next time so we can hang out..and he wanted to make sure i was definitely still coming to college near him. we talked for awhile, and then i had to leave..so he kissed me on the lips goodbye, and wrote to me about a week later asking me how my trip was, and telling me to call him next time.

1.does it sound like he liked me a lot?
2.why would he ask me if i was a virgin when he knew i was already?
3.why did i need to give head if he didn't have a condom on?
4. why did he come back to lay with me after the first time we had sex?

Answer 1

It does sound like he did like you and the fact that he got jealous tell me that he more than liked you and according to what you are and were saying later he still likes you and I think it goes beyond like at this point even though he has not said he loves you. In fact it sounds as though you have strong feelings for him as well and maybe you love him but just haven't admitted this fact to yourself. On the other hand, neither has he. The fact that he asked if you were a virgin does not necessarily mean he knew it beforehand. It may mean that he really did not know but guessed that you were but wanted to hear it from you. Maybe he wanted to see if you knew whether you knew the meaning of the term or whether you thought in those terms and maybe if you were a rather conservative individual with principles. As far as giving head, maybe he is use to having someone give him head and loves that feeling. It may be that he really loves it and desires it from someone when he doesn't have a condom on and I can understand that because I am the same way myself. I love for my girlfriend to give me head because she is so sexy and sensual doing it and I love to give her oral sex as well. We are very much alike in this regard. It wasn't a matter of him needing you to give him head as much as it was him desiring it from you if he wasn't going to wear a condom or was going to take it off. It was probably more of a suggestion and I would have made the same suggestion. He came back to lay with you after the first time you had sex with him because he liked the sex with you. If he hadn't liked it he would have never come back and as you say it was better the second time because of the way it was according to you. You should know the second time you do something it is always better than the first in most cases and especially in this regard. I would have come back myself especially if I thought it would be better than the first. Another thing to think about is that maybe he didn't have anyone else at the time and wanted to have sex with you again because of this. Since you didn't ask him if there was anyone else at the time this may be a good assumption.

Answer 2

I think that he liked you but how much can you like someone you just met. I don't' think that it's love.

The guys was checking to see if you really were telling the truth about being a virgin. Maybe he thought that you would have a different answer this time since you were about to have sex. He obviously didn't want to come inside you and risk getting you pregnant so he probably wanted to you to finish him off. Don't know why he came back to lay with you except that it was nice of him.

You know he's probably a nice guy who knows that having sex for the first time should be special so he may have wanted to give you a nice memory of your first time. He's probably not going to become your boyfriend over it now. But at least he's someone that you'll know when you go to college in his town.

Answer 3

Yes you were correct with you answer of B! Don't trust anyone else above, except for Mr. A. The first thing you should notice is that the gradient of this graph is POSITIVE. That means the only possible correct answers to this would either be the answer B or the answer E. x=4 definitely is not this graph, x=4 would be a verticle line on the graph passing through the x-axis at 4. And also I checked with the graphic calculator since I haven't done this sort of a question in like... a year lol. The answer is definitely y=5/2x + 5.

Answer 4

1. You were a virgin, but within a few days of meeting this guy you slept with him...all boys like sex

2. See answer number 1: most virgins don't give it up that quickly

3. He didn't want to come inside you and knock you up, so he wanted you to finish him off the next less messy way.

4. He was hoping either, a. you would sleep with him again that night, or you would sleep with him the next night, so he figured he had to give you a little attention.

Maybe he likes you, but really...why'd you give it all up to a guy you barely know? It takes the fun out of getting to know each other.

Answer 5

1. Don't get your hopes up
2. Sounds like he played up to your innocence
3. 99% of guys like head - seemed like a good excuse. he was probably joking, but 99% of guys like head and he saw it as an excuse (see #2).
4. Probably to setup getting it more....

He may have been genuine, and it sounds like at the very least he was nice about it. Accept this as an enjoyable first time. Backup from it for a bit - take the time left between you moving closer to try to learn more about the dude and be "friends" - then if the relationship grows (without you just showing up on surprises - but him putting forth effort), then great. If not, don't push the issue - you'll know he just wants some honey.

Answer 6

1. It sounded like a conquest to me.
2. Maybe you were better in bed than most inexperienced women
3. It was convenient....why not try and get a little of both
4. He was hoping for seconds.

You were really stupid to have sex without a condom. You should get tested for STD's like tomorrow.

Answer 7

Answers:
1. Likely
2. Don't know, perhaps he forgot?
3. Don't know
4. Because he enjoys your company

Answer 8

very long and crazy in a way. I don't know how to exactly answer your question

Answer 9

Find a way to shorten that and I'll read it. WAY too long for this kind of venue.

Answer 10

He likes you.
This is all you need to worry about.
Good Luck