I have never met my father and no little about him but I would like to. Is there any way I can find him without paying anything? I am a broke college student.
2007-01-21 07:11:11 · 12 answers · asked by Candace 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Talk to your family
2007-01-21 07:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-k- I know this is kind of obvious but have you tried your Mother? She knows at least "who" he is and if they had a relationship she may very well know some family or close friends of his that could aide you on your way...all of these are free. If not Mom, then what about Grandparents (her parents) they may know him too.
My parents were divorced before I turned 1. My sister and mom always spoke negatively about him until I actually started asking questions. I've always had a relationship with his parents as well so when I was ready they just arranged for him to come over one day while I was visiting. It may be more difficult for you but you never know until you try. Mom and dad have since reconciled to being friends - weird after 25 years of not having him around.
Good luck
2007-01-21 15:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. TT '07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find the majority of the information you want is through paying for a people search $35+ or background check using his name & last known address (they go back years) and/or his social security numbers. If he was one of the ones who signed you away for adoption, that may be on the paperwork. Regardless, please rethink this. Unless you are trying to find out about family history diseases, etc. you may be wasting your time. (If) He gave you up and has not bothered to try to find you all these years, he has obviously moved on with his life. Focus your heart and your money on your real future. You are born to one family, perhaps raised by another, but the one you create out of friendship and love with family & friends is the one that sustains you.
2007-01-21 15:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by shasser2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know if you know his name and know about places he lived you can look in public records. My dad had a daughter from a previous marriage I had never met and he did'nt know where she was and then he died. I put all my efforts into finding her. I searched the web in public records, talked to my dad's family for hints. I found her a few months ago for free and we talk now on the phone alot and plan to have a visit with her in a few months. It is very exciting to find a lost loved one. When you find him tell him you love him and you care and ask questions and get to know him and I know you can find him I found my sister. Good Luck in the search.
2007-01-21 15:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by browneyes79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a few TV shows that used to find relatives that were hard to find, My mind went blank when I tried to think of them sorry. Just maybe one of them can help.
2007-01-21 15:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by railway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FAMILY
They are the ones who know the most about him. Then utilize the internet too pursue the leads they give you. Or wait until your not broke...
2007-01-21 15:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it your mom don't know where he is?You got a name and you can google him and find him that ways.
2007-01-21 15:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by Smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know his whole name and it would help to know what state you think he is in if not you can just do a people search on zabasearch.com....its free
2007-01-21 15:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have computer access, look him up or maury or something liek that you can do and all night search and find him liek that
2007-01-25 02:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, search public records.
2007-01-21 15:14:33 · answer #10 · answered by dgreer58 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋