i like this guy, and this girl (who i cant stand) likes him too. she doesnt know him like i do, she honestly thinks she's the only girl he flirts with. she thinks they have a thing when really hes like that towards all girls.
ive been friends with him for almost 2 years and we've never dated because i know how he is.
im just wondering, do you think i should tell this girl that hes like that towards all girls or do i just ignore it? shes always telling me how much she loves him and so on.
im friends with him, and not with her, so i dont know whos side i should be on. i know what hes doing is wrong but its not like im friends with her.
2007-01-21 06:58:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you like the guy, ask him out. But if that's not your intentions, then let her know. Even if she's you enemy, you wouldn't want anyone to get hurt. Cause if it was you on her position, wouldn't you want to know?
2007-01-21 07:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should probably just stay out of it, unless you are 100% sure someone is going to be really upset and hurt because YOU didn't say anything.
be careful how you approach them. be kind and don't point fingers, just state your observation. the best way to critique someone is to give them a compliment, suggest change, and then give then another complement.
if you talk to her she could say you're lying to hurt her and/ or not believe you. and why should she trust you if you're not friends and you've said you don't like her.
if you talk to him, he could get offended or upset. so be careful how you discuss it.
but why do you want to help this girl in the first place if you don't even like her. it sounds like you just creating drama for yourself.
2007-01-21 15:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by xyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think it is your place to tell her anything? Why don't you let her find out things for herself? Why should you be concerned about what happens to her because of the way you feel about him or her? I think it is better for people to learn things themselves and not from others. Besides, do you think she cares what you think whether it is right or wrong and would she believe you if you told her anyway?
2007-01-21 15:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say leave it alone because u might lose both friends unless u like this guy and then go for it may the best one win .
2007-01-21 15:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by ezmoney7172 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what he is doing is wrong, you should keep your distance from him. If he has any feelings for you your distance may cause him to miss you. If I were you, I wouldn't say anything to the other girl. There is no need to, plus she might misjudged your intention.
2007-01-21 15:06:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your alittle bit jealous. which is understandable. b/c i like a guy right now too and he is a big flirt with a ton of girlss. i just kind of ignore it if its meant to be it will happen.
the other girl will figure it out sooner or later.
2007-01-21 15:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, let her find out for herself, maybe shes the exception, more importantly they always shoot the messenger
2007-01-21 15:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by mia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would just be expressing your opinion of him.!
How did you discover his flirting habit?
Well how do you know this might be what changes him?
Let it go. just be friends.
2007-01-21 15:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell that girl to back off! she's being a harlet!!!
then carefully confront your friend. be all casual. and i don't know- casually sink into telling him you love him.
NOT all in one conversation.
let it take a few weeks.
2007-01-21 15:02:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him that u like him.so how long have u know this girl?
ps. hope everything works out.
2007-01-21 15:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by kayleewimmer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋